Hello. I am very interested in surprising my wife with a BBC dildo. I am looking for something above average to hopefully peak her interest, but nothing over the top. I have seen some very good reviews about the Mr. Marcus one, and it seems to be along the lines of what I want to get her, something big but not over the top that will scare her. Would love some insight on this specific one or others that are similar in size and price. Thank you.