Boyfriend, Bull or casual sex?

I think this is an interesting topic for discussion. When I read other peoples posts in cuckold and hotwife forums it appears that different couples have different tastes. Some wives have a steady boyfriend whereas some prefer to play the field and others have a bull who services the wife from time to time.

In our case my wife Jess prefers to play the field. She has, on occasions, kept a man around for a few months if he was a good lover and gave her the kind of sex she loved, but even then, she was totally incapable of being faithful to him. She revelled in the freedom she had to go out and fuck just about any man she fancied so she made the most of it. Her most promiscuous period was the time we ran the guest house and she was fucking the residents, The guest house was occupied with many men who were contracting on the nearby nuclear power plant and Jess was fucking two or three guys a week for a long time.

I have written earlier posts on Jess's activities in this forum but I would like to hear other couples accounts, boyfriend or casual? there must be some interesting stories out there.
All the above. Entirely what the situation calls for. If a Bull refers to himself as a BBC, I let it ride. I let her ride it, too!

But I have a lot of respect for her and also for the men she is having fun with. The black guys were very kind, usually more so than the white guys, who were sometimes crude.
But I'm pretty chill; this is supposed to be fun, yeah?! So, we cater to their fantasies and desires and terminology, too, I guess. More BBC for all if that is what they want!
 
For us it's definitely casual sex.
She has no intention of ever having anyone who may expect her to be only playing with him.
She does have regular guys but always with the understanding that it's about fucking for pleasure no strings and no issues. Strangely enough there is no shortage of men quite ok with these rule. They can have a fuck with no consequences. Married men in particular like this system.
She finds the idea of a bull ridiculous. As she puts it, why the fuck would I want some other guy telling me what to do and who to fuck, fuck that. And that's a direct quote.
 
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We are emotionally monogamous, but love having casual sex with other people, whether that’s MFF, MFM, MFMF or MMMF+, etc. We view ourselves as a team us vs. them (in the purest way). No competition—just performance for each other’s pleasure. We typically limit the couples we fuck to two times or so max to avoid the possibility of any feelings being caught. We are all human after all. Feelings come naturally. Always a group text, no one-on-one unless it’s me and the other guy. I’m straight so there’s no possibility of feelings in that scenario. For us, “we” are the most important. If we protect what we have, it feels like an arrangement that can last forever, bc “cheating” is off the table. That being said, I feel like the LS is ever-changing. This works for us now, but we are open (no pun intended) to an evolving situation, as long as we do it as a team.

For me, It feels really easy to lose self-control in the LS and listen to my carnal voice. I don’t want to do that to the detriment of what I have. Conversely, the beautiful thing about the LS is there is no right answer. It’s whatever works for you at any given time. The LS is only as good as your relationship is solid.
 
When I met my wife we were still in the army, she had a regular guy that would come see her before or after going on deployment, there was no emotional connection just sex, my wife has always preferred to play the field but would very rarely fuck the same guy twice, she also had a rule of never fucking anyone she worked closely with,

She continued fucking other guys while we were dating and after we got married especially when she would go on deployment or out to the field for training, after we retired from the army and started working civilian jobs she continued fucking other guys when she would go on business trips and sometimes if she met someone she liked during an office party or when she would go out with her friends,

For my wife she always loved playing the field for casual sex and only a few times kept a regular guy, she's also had a few pregnancies as a result before and after we got married but all have ended in miscarriages, for her it's just part of sex,

There's plenty of stories we can share, experiences we've had during our army career and civilian jobs and also experiences we've had with an army buddy of mine, any is welcome to message us for any details on our experience.
 
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My fiancée found her cock at work. She’s open for other men but her colleague satisfied her and fucked really good so she kept on getting railed by him when the work day was done. So it’s a more casual thing. Would love for her to have a bull though.
 
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My fiancée found her cock at work. She’s open for other men but her colleague satisfied her and fucked really good so she kept on getting railed by him when the work day was done. So it’s a more casual thing. Would love for her to have a bull though.
Jess was more into casual sex she loved variety, but, if she was really into a good looking fit guy who gave her a good satisfying fuck, she would keep him around for a while. Jess enjoyed the full experience, she wasn't one for a quick fuck behind the pub, she wanted a bed, so, if a guy wanted to fuck Jess, he had to fit the bill and he must have somewhere to take her.

Much as she enjoyed being fucked, Jess wanted her man to make love to her, she wanted to be charmed and seduced. Kissing was important to her, she loves to be kissed as her lover is fucking her, she found kissing to be just as intimate as the act itself. As for me, I totally agree with her, kissing is an important part of love making, kissing is so erotic and when I picture Jess getting fucked I also picture her kissing him.

It's exactly the same when I watch wife porn on the internet. If there's no kissing involved then its not real. I love watching genuine amateur wife porn, where the wife is enjoying slow sensual erotic sex. I love to see her lover kissing her whilst he is slowly pumping his dick into her, and I love to see the wife enjoying his cock, licking it, kissing it and teasing it, not rapidly pumping it with her mouth. That is what I call face fucking and its not sensual.

That is my feelings, it will be interesting to get other peoples views on this.
 
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My wife has a steady older boyfriend from 2021 and still comes around sometimes. She also has been seeing a younger guy about a year ago. She told me the other night after work she was going to his apartment. When she got there his friend was there and my wife says he is real big guy and handsome. She had met him before, they work together. Her boyfriend told her that he has started dating a women his age and is getting serious. She said she understood. The friend was leaving and my wife left with him at the same time. He asked her if she wanted to go to the bar up the street she said ok. They were talking and he put his hand on her leg then reached in and kissed her. He said want to go to my place? nervously she said yes. She called me and said I`m going to text you his address. When they got in he offered her a drink sat close to her and started kissing her. After about 10 minutes he stood up and said want to see my bedroom. Of course she said yes. She stripped down they ended up fucking. She said he was great. They exchanged cell numbers. When she got home told me what happened. Said all his cum leaked out on the way home. I said you went to go to see your boyfriend and he broke up with you and you fucked his friend? She said yeah that`s right. i said you have become real slut jokingly and she said you wanted me to cuckold you and once I did, I don`t want to stop having sex with other men.
 
Wife calls them just friends. But there are some friends which been seeing (and fucking) her for about 2 years or so.

She doesn't enjoy one-nights type of things, but doesn't see those men as boyfriends or steady somethings.

Wow, similar situation here. Been seeing(fucking) some bulls for 1-3 years too. Would say more than boyfriend, more than casual though we understand their are no strings attached and they don’t have to worry about committing to anything.

Although we know because they are married they can’t be more than an overnight or weekend fuck marathon livers, we do enjoy the time we spend together.

 
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My wife has a steady older boyfriend from 2021 and still comes around sometimes. She also has been seeing a younger guy about a year ago. She told me the other night after work she was going to his apartment. When she got there his friend was there and my wife says he is real big guy and handsome. She had met him before, they work together. Her boyfriend told her that he has started dating a women his age and is getting serious. She said she understood. The friend was leaving and my wife left with him at the same time. He asked her if she wanted to go to the bar up the street she said ok. They were talking and he put his hand on her leg then reached in and kissed her. He said want to go to my place? nervously she said yes. She called me and said I`m going to text you his address. When they got in he offered her a drink sat close to her and started kissing her. After about 10 minutes he stood up and said want to see my bedroom. Of course she said yes. She stripped down they ended up fucking. She said he was great. They exchanged cell numbers. When she got home told me what happened. Said all his cum leaked out on the way home. I said you went to go to see your boyfriend and he broke up with you and you fucked his friend? She said yeah that`s right. i said you have become real slut jokingly and she said you wanted me to cuckold you and once I did, I don`t want to stop having sex with other men.
Sometimes we get what we ask for!
 
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The guy that fucked her texted her Saturday and said I know Josh has a new girlfriend but if you want to meet again I`d like that. He told me your husband knows you fuck other men and is a cuckold. I like that. Text me when you can. She told me today she hasn`t responded yet but she is going to see him again
Those are the words I loved to hear: "I'm going to see him again." But your wife's prospective BF's comments are interesting to me. I'm an old guy, and while wife and I have enjoyed many of the scenarios we discuss in this blog, we never discussed using the word "cuckold." It just wasn't in play! I just knew I was totally aroused by her having sex and relationships with other men.
 
I'm with you on this one, Jess and I never used the term cuckold. To my way of thinking, the the modern definition of a cuckold is a submissive husband in a female led marriage. I was never the submissive type but, like you, I got a lot of pleasure from my wife fucking different men. I was also free to fuck other women, but I wasn't as successful as Jess.

Also like you, I loved it when she came home from a date after being well fucked and telling me how good it was, and can't wait to see him again.
 
Wife let new younger guy come to our house last week and he came in sat down we talked a couple minutes and he is at least 6` 2 and very big and in shape. Offered him a drink and my wife came in the room kissed in front of me. After a few minutes she went to our bedroom and shut the door. I could hear them clearly from below. After a few minutes they started fucking and I could hear right away moaning. They fucked a while. After they were done he came down stairs and said see you later and left. My wife called me upstairs and said clean me up. Sat right over my my face. Saying lick my lovers cum. She said see how big and strong he is. His cock is the biggest I`ve ever had and he made me cum in like 2 minutes and then 3 times. He kept hitting my G spot. Do we taste good? I said yes. She said he is so good.
 
Wife has a bull that she sees almost every weekend and they spend the time together … it has helped our sex relationship, we respect each other … plus she gets to have fun as much as she likes .. so to me the bull is the best way to..
 
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