Brand new to this notion…

[isthisforme]

…and trying to determine if this is something that I might be interested in

I am 38, my husband was in an accident several years ago that left him paralyzed below the neck. Over the past year or so he has been telling he would support me being with other men with certain ground rules. Looking to learn more about this and determine if this is right for me, for us

 

[Plumbdaddy]

Welcome!

 

[29latino4wifes]

…and trying to determine if this is something that I might be interested in

I am 38, my husband was in an accident several years ago that left him paralyzed below the neck. Over the past year or so he has been telling he would support me being with other men with certain ground rules. Looking to learn more about this and determine if this is right for me, for us

Welcome. Just check things out and decide if you like to join. Dm me if your interested?

 

[isthisforme]

Welcome!

Thank you!

 

[atantonov]

…and trying to determine if this is something that I might be interested in

I am 38, my husband was in an accident several years ago that left him paralyzed below the neck. Over the past year or so he has been telling he would support me being with other men with certain ground rules. Looking to learn more about this and determine if this is right for me, for us

You are 38. sexually in your prime.
If everything is normal with you, you should have a very good sex drive.
I am sorry that your husband had such a tragedy and is unable to sexually perform. If he has been telling you that he would support you having a lover that tells me that he loves you very much.
Did he tell you what are the rules?

 

[isthisforme]

You are 38. sexually in your prime.
If everything is normal with you, you should have a very good sex drive.
I am sorry that your husband had such a tragedy and is unable to sexually perform. If he has been telling you that he would support you having a lover that tells me that he loves you very much.
Did he tell you what are the rules?

We have discussed some rules yes

 

[atantonov]

We have discussed some rules yes

Please do share?

 

[isthisforme]

You are 38. sexually in your prime.
If everything is normal with you, you should have a very good sex drive.
I am sorry that your husband had such a tragedy and is unable to sexually perform. If he has been telling you that he would support you having a lover that tells me that he loves you very much.
Did he tell you what are the rules?

They are:

I have to tell him, in detail, about the experience

I must answer any and all questions he has honestly, even if it might make him jealous

No co-workers

No pictures or videos, at least starting out

He has to meet or at least talk to the guy one time

I have to share all text messages or communications with the guy with him

He knows it’s important for me to have a connection with a potential partner so he wants me to be open if/when I am developing feelings for a man

 

[atantonov]

They are:

I have to tell him, in detail, about the experience

I must answer any and all questions he has honestly, even if it might make him jealous

No co-workers

No pictures or videos, at least starting out

He has to meet or at least talk to the guy one time

I have to share all text messages or communications with the guy with him

He knows it’s important for me to have a connection with a potential partner so he wants me to be open if/when I am developing feelings for a man

How do you feel about this rules?

 

[isthisforme]

How do you feel about this rules?

I think I feel pretty good about them. They all seem reasonable. Are there other rules that we should consider?

 

[dianemilf]

…and trying to determine if this is something that I might be interested in

I am 38, my husband was in an accident several years ago that left him paralyzed below the neck. Over the past year or so he has been telling he would support me being with other men with certain ground rules. Looking to learn more about this and determine if this is right for me, for us

Go back to God if possible.

 

[isthisforme]

Go back to God if possible.

Not sure what this means

 

[dianemilf]

Not sure what this means

Pray harder.

 

[atantonov]

I think I feel pretty good about them. They all seem reasonable. Are there other rules that we should consider?

I don't know if I am the right person to tell you what kind of rules you guys should have. I think you guys should think about your future and what you want for your self. Where do you see your self's in lets say 5 years? So maybe based on that you should be setting the rules also.
I think if I was him i'd want to hear all the details to.
I am wondering about no coworkers rule, why?
He wants to know all about the experience but no pictures and videos. You know the say a picture paints a thousand words.
I'm thinking that he dont want you to leave him or maybe I should say He don't want your lover to steal you and take you from him..... thats why rule about telling him about feelings?
Are you the type of a lady that could have sex with a man and then send him home after using him for sex?
Can you ...... with a man without falling in love? Most men find it very easy, but my experience with women is, I fall asleep and they fall in love.
Lots of questions... I would encourage you to go for it. Just work on rules and stick to them....

 

[isthisforme]

The co-workers rule is something I’ve been pushing back on a little because when I think about potential partners a guy I know through work is someone I would totally want to consider

The no pictures, for now, is just being wary of it getting out somehow given our involvement in the community. But we have discussed that that rule may be unnecessary at some point

I need a connection to fully give myself to a man, I am just not wired to simply ...... with a man and drop it completely so I know I am susceptible to developing feelings and my husband understands that and wants to leave some room there for my personality

 

[Kandjfun]

They are:

I have to tell him, in detail, about the experience

I must answer any and all questions he has honestly, even if it might make him jealous

No co-workers

No pictures or videos, at least starting out

He has to meet or at least talk to the guy one time

I have to share all text messages or communications with the guy with him

He knows it’s important for me to have a connection with a potential partner so he wants me to be open if/when I am developing feelings for a man

We have similar rules, or expectations. Open and honest communication is very important for this lifestyle to work, especially since there is a natural evolution that comes with different experiences. My wife and I both love the lifestyle and honestly it has made us even closer and more in love with each other than we already were. It’s definitely worth exploring, but take your time and move at a pace that is comfortable for both of you.

 

[isthisforme]

We have similar rules, or expectations. Open and honest communication is very important for this lifestyle to work, especially since there is a natural evolution that comes with different experiences. My wife and I both love the lifestyle and honestly it has made us even closer and more in love with each other than we already were. It’s definitely worth exploring, but take your time and move at a pace that is comfortable for both of you.

I love hearing that and I think that is a likely result for us too. I love and respect him so much, and the fact that he is offering that up for me I think also speaks to his love for me.

Thank you for your thoughtful response!

 

[Kandjfun]

I love hearing that and I think that is a likely result for us too. I love and respect him so much, and the fact that he is offering that up for me I think also speaks to his love for me.

Thank you for your thoughtful response!

Absolutely, and if you ever need advice from an experienced and happy couple, feel free to message me.

 

[isthisforme]

Absolutely, and if you ever need advice from an experienced and happy couple, feel free to message me.

Thank you! I will definitely take you up on that

 

[atantonov]

I love hearing that and I think that is a likely result for us too. I love and respect him so much, and the fact that he is offering that up for me I think also speaks to his love for me.

Thank you for your thoughtful response!

I agree with you 100%