Well, my wife and I always wanted a family, but she knew i could not give her kids, so this was always a possibility for us when we went into the lifestyle, only problem was, however, that my wife could not find the "perfect man" to have a baby with, per her own words. It took a while, as well as a few possible candidates for her to realize she wanted our neighbor to impregnate her. It had always been an erotic thought for me, but one that made me really nervous. What if she wanted to continue a family with him and not me? But it all worked for the best, and now we are parenting our ......, with him not too far away from his ...... as well.