Wishing you were closer to me here in Florida. I would love to test that statement.Exactly how we feel!! I love discussing with my husband what role my Lover would play in our lives during my pregnancy and after. Hubby is aware that if I am THIS involved with a Lover, I want to be completely faithful to him (Lover) sexually and ONLY have his sperm inside of me and that I would want to continue this during my pregnancy, and after if the relationship continues. He is accepting of my desires. J (the wife)