I love your church comment. Religion's nothing more than a made up story by con men.
Bullshit detector
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I absolutely am going to vet anyone I would let engage in anything with my wife.
We had an opportunity while on vacation and I put a stop to it bc the guy was a complete arrogant fuck. I was like nah, I need to feel like this guy is respectful and I would want to have a beer with him on a day off or after work. I have no desire to do anything bisexual or gay. If my wife wanted DP, that’s something I would consider bc she has been cool about my fantasies.
I’ve been messaging guys to see where they live and get pictures. If I click with a guy and he is hung, then I would try to set it up when we travel to that area. Been wanting to visit Portugal and there is a guy on here from there, so why not. If the stars lineup, let’s do it. If not, then maybe it just seems like bs to you or someone else.
I think it's probably healthy to be sceptical since I'm sure alot of people do just want to express their fantasy by pretending. I'm pretty sure at least one person thought our story is BS but some times things do just work out, people get lucky and fantasy's come true. It's never exactly how you imagine it though but we got pretty close.
I’m sure that’s true. But I also think there are a fair number of men who prolly have no relationship or sex with anyone else just fantasizing about it. From both sides of the equation, honestly.
I love this post. I've heard them all before. You definitely learn to spot the bs pretty quick after talking to a lot of people. Real people want to meet in person. Period.
It only takes a guy (online chat) being a total ass just once or twice and wife won't chat
I've wasted more time than I can spare with guys ping - ponging mails back and forth until it gets to my question "when shall we meet then?" and suddenly the nebulous "couple" disappear. But I'm assuming there must be some genuine couples on this site. Disheartening though.
There are. But as usual there are three sides to the to the story. The genuine couple males who want to meet and do the right thing. Those who want to just chat about their fantasies. And the bottom feeders who string everyone along with their BS. Couples like us use a stringent screening process to sort and weed out the timewasters. Why? Because the timewasters has forced upon the neccessity to do it by their behaviour. And its Fckuing annoying lol
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nothing makes my wife shut down faster than a guy who gets vulgar or aggressive. my wife is very easy going will flirt with any and everyone but if a guys says something stupid it's all over
there is a lot of BS to deal with but that is part of the scene. I had 2 guys this week who didn't show. I was offering them a chance to have my wife on a silver platter and even after confirming the meet up they didn't show. one guy became a ghost and the other offered a lame excuse. we were both upset with them
here she is waiting for one of them
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here she is waiting for one of them
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There are but some of them are not here to meet others but they will also not lead you on in emails
Are we being trolled? Even the guys name Alex_new2this should set off our alarm bells.
I vet my wife's lovers too. I never, ever, tell her who to have sex with. I just help her narrow the list down. We communicate about every lover. Over the last 10 years I have become very familiar with her taste in men. Anybody that comes close I share contact info with her and then let her take it from there. Too many men and not enough time is the reason.
As far as the rest of the list. No we don't play at work but I have known of others who do. Personal choice. You take your risks as you see fit.
I'm not bi. Most men don't seem to want to be open to this so I'd expect fewer are admittedly bi than straight. It is about human sexuality and I'm not at all surprised to find men are bi in this lifestyle.
And number 4 on his list? Seriously! That is real bullshit. Not sure exactly what he means but we have never encountered that nor know of any such situations.
Again, I think we are being trolled by someone with absolutely no experience in this lifestyle.
I vet my wife's lovers too. I never, ever, tell her who to have sex with. I just help her narrow the list down. We communicate about every lover. Over the last 10 years I have become very familiar with her taste in men. Anybody that comes close I share contact info with her and then let her take it from there. Too many men and not enough time is the reason.
As far as the rest of the list. No we don't play at work but I have known of others who do. Personal choice. You take your risks as you see fit.
I'm not bi. Most men don't seem to want to be open to this so I'd expect fewer are admittedly bi than straight. It is about human sexuality and I'm not at all surprised to find men are bi in this lifestyle.
And number 4 on his list? Seriously! That is real bullshit. Not sure exactly what he means but we have never encountered that nor know of any such situations.
Again, I think we are being trolled by someone with absolutely no experience in this lifestyle.
There are also bots here.They only mimmic what others say. Those bother me more than the fakes because they are quite disruptive at times
An understanding should be made at the start to make clear everyones motives and intentions. That will weed out those not in your line of intrest, both the ones who want to hook up and those who just want to chat.
I do the same. I vet most of the men, I know her type well and I set the meet up, if things click then it's game on.
Well, they missed out on a fun time. They will never know how good it could have been.
true, but that isn't the point. the point is that there are so many people on sites like this that are just full crap
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