Couples into mfm/cuck fun Does it improve your sex life?

Seems like im in the minority here but I get off on it more than my wife does
When we did mfm we had fun, but now that we have stopped im in the position where i want to keep watching but wife doesnt want to particpate.
We still fuck regularly but uses the "been there done that" route in regards to 3 ways
Husband here. We do this semi regularly with a guy we know.
My wife dosent say much about it other than it's fun.
WHILE he's with us she's WAY INTO IT. We take turns with her and she fucks me like we never do alone. She's a completely different sex partner. It's super obvious she likes sex with him a LOT. She holds him tight and fucks back against him like crazy sometimes saying things like....you feel so good...or .. I can feel you're ready to cum. After we've each done her once she says something to him like....I'm so ready for more and shoves her tongue into his mouth and mounts him.
I have no complaints but sometimes it seems like she's just a little too into it with him.
I'd say she's more into it than I am but we all have a good time.
 
Husband here. We do this semi regularly with a guy we know.
My wife dosent say much about it other than it's fun.
WHILE he's with us she's WAY INTO IT. We take turns with her and she fucks me like we never do alone. She's a completely different sex partner. It's super obvious she likes sex with him a LOT. She holds him tight and fucks back against him like crazy sometimes saying things like....you feel so good...or .. I can feel you're ready to cum. After we've each done her once she says something to him like....I'm so ready for more and shoves her tongue into his mouth and mounts him.
I have no complaints but sometimes it seems like she's just a little too into it with him.
I'd say she's more into it than I am but we all have a good time.
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Couples .... If you are into inviting a 2nd guy in what's it like for you?
Does hubby only watch? Join in?
Do you have a regular? Hook up with strangers?
Where does it happen? Motels?

We have a guy friend we get with. We only do this with him. Most always at our place.
We take turns with her, we all have a fun time.
Our sex life is great with and without him. Wife is super horny for days after he's been with us.
It absolutely improves your sex life. My husband and I enjoy another man joining us. My husband loves me sucking his cock while watching me get fucked from behind. He says he loves the sound of the other man’s skin slapping against me while he’s cumming. He also loves when I’m sucking the other man while he’s pounding me. MFM is our absolute favorite.
 
Husband here. We do this semi regularly with a guy we know.
My wife dosent say much about it other than it's fun.
WHILE he's with us she's WAY INTO IT. We take turns with her and she fucks me like we never do alone. She's a completely different sex partner. It's super obvious she likes sex with him a LOT. She holds him tight and fucks back against him like crazy sometimes saying things like....you feel so good...or .. I can feel you're ready to cum. After we've each done her once she says something to him like....I'm so ready for more and shoves her tongue into his mouth and mounts him.
I have no complaints but sometimes it seems like she's just a little too into it with him.
I'd say she's more into it than I am but we all have a good time.

I think this is natural. Whether his dick or the way he makes love to her is better in some way, who knows but even if it was the same or even a little worse, I expect she would still be excited by the novelty and taboo of it. Unfortunately, nothing kills sexual excitement like over-familiarity. I think this is especially true for women. Men tend to have a certain base sex drive and will just periodically want to fuck every so often, no matter what. I think women's sex drive is more circumstantial and requires more external stimulation. You are safe and secure as her life-partner, it is easy to take your attention for granted and assume it does not require as much effort, whether that's true or not. Thus she is likely to feel more drive to show off for the new man, to perform more for him to keep his interest. At the same time, being the center of attention for two men is no doubt a huge turn on. Even if she seems to be energetic in her sex with the other guy, part of it may also be a performance for you and I am sure she gets off to some extent knowing that her husband is watching her be a slut and getting off on it.

When its over, inhibitions and caution return - she underplays her interest because she doesn't want you to become jealous and upset. I think also it is just that the male "sex brain" is kind of always running low-key in the background but the female "sex-brain" is off a lot of the time and takes a while to warm up, especially once they have kids and their day to day thoughts are dominated by other concerns.
 
I think this is natural. Whether his dick or the way he makes love to her is better in some way, who knows but even if it was the same or even a little worse, I expect she would still be excited by the novelty and taboo of it. Unfortunately, nothing kills sexual excitement like over-familiarity. I think this is especially true for women. Men tend to have a certain base sex drive and will just periodically want to fuck every so often, no matter what. I think women's sex drive is more circumstantial and requires more external stimulation. You are safe and secure as her life-partner, it is easy to take your attention for granted and assume it does not require as much effort, whether that's true or not. Thus she is likely to feel more drive to show off for the new man, to perform more for him to keep his interest. At the same time, being the center of attention for two men is no doubt a huge turn on. Even if she seems to be energetic in her sex with the other guy, part of it may also be a performance for you and I am sure she gets off to some extent knowing that her husband is watching her be a slut and getting off on it.

When its over, inhibitions and caution return - she underplays her interest because she doesn't want you to become jealous and upset. I think also it is just that the male "sex brain" is kind of always running low-key in the background but the female "sex-brain" is off a lot of the time and takes a while to warm up, especially once they have kids and their day to day thoughts are dominated by other concerns.
That's a pretty conclusion. When they're getting it on sometimes she looks at me or we hold hands and sometimes we kiss while he's fucking her. Sometimes she just lays back with her eyes closed and moans. They always a a few minutes of hard fucking with him slamming her and she's into it for sure. I don't know what's in her mind but she obviously likes this.
 
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Poehhhhh,

How to explain it in a few words?

Before we got married, my wife had no problem showing me that other men were interested in her.
Tongue kissing was sometimes part of it.
Over the years, I have seen her naked with other men.
One of them even brought her to orgasm with his fingers while I was right next to them.

We got married and raised our two kids together.
I'm not saying nothing happened during this period, but you could describe it as rather 'harmless'.
The kids had left home, our sex life improved.
Once, my wife confessed that she had imagined having sex with other men (whom we knew) while we were having sex. But it took 10–15 years before that became a reality. The trigger was her asking to watch what I had collected on my computer. She pressed me, not showing any shame. That was hard. She noticed which "porn" I enjoyed very much, such as cuckolding. I say 'cuckolding', but there was more to it than that.

Then she asked me what I would like to see when she had sex with another man.
I said that I would like to watch another man ejaculate in and around her mouth, and then swallow the semen.
She asked why I wanted to see that in particular.
'You do swallow another man's cum, though. You never swallow mine.”

She then asked me to promise to accept everything from her. I hesitated for a moment, then repeated her words, 'Without any exception'.
We discussed how to start, and decided that visiting a sex club would be the easiest solution.
I searched online and she chose the club described in my signature.
From our very first visit to this club, I was cuckolded.
On the morning during our first visit, six men ejaculated on her body. She didn't shower. About 45 minutes later, back at home, I had to clean her up with my mouth.

My elegant wife became a woman who was 'available' to other men, and clearly enjoyed it. I became her guard and watcher.
Six months later, she was completely satisfied with having me as her bisexual husband. She loved me taking cocks in my mouth.
It improved our sex life. I have to say dirty sex life because WS was her most exciting thing for her to apply to me. SM-play with my balls, cock and glans too.

In vanilla life we were very happy with each other and a “normal” couple.
 
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