JMO
If a Wife fucks another man at his place, in his bed, or in his hotel room it changes the dynamic for him. He will naturally be more possessive of the experience and potentially of her whether they realize it right away or not
We have these rules for a reason!
Never without me there, I only watch unless she invites me to join in
Always at home or in our hotel room
One and done, next!
No repeats - only new guys, that way nobody gets into their feelings for things to go sideways
She never wants me to set up a guy for her and she won’t hook up with anyone scheduled off the internet. She needs to meet someone in person naturally, flirt and be flirted with and know the right vibe is there whether she wants him or not.
Maybe we’re being too cautious and controlling but it works for us. 3 yrs, over 100 guys and you can count minor issues on one hand that were easily resolved with open communication
