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It sounds like there is a direction she leans in during the heat of the moment or while under the influence. So while sober and not in the act what do YOU want and what does she want? We spend most of our lives in the sober/not in the act portion. If you both agree while sober it might be something to consider. There is a big difference in role play and fantasies vs actually doing it. Post orgasm reality is a thing and you both need to be comfortable in the aftermath, which by the way is not a fixed stagnant state. A little excitement and deviance seems to lead to more. Talk it out. Does it seem you would still feel the same way on a Tuesday morning at 9AM on your way to work? As long as you are both good with that then think about moving forward. Maybe start slow as opposed to multiple guys at the first trial.

Its also perfectly OK for some fantasies to remain as fantasies. Maybe there are other things that would scratch that itch? I know where you are coming from as I was there. I had a fantasy that overcame me and opted to reveal it to my wife and we did move forward, not exactly in the exact direction of my fantasy but close enough that I just pushed forward. The pre orgasm mind was a bit clouded and we did have an amazing time but we also had a lot to overcome after the fact. It led to a year of extra marital sex so a lot of baggage. Not trying to discourage you or I would be a hypocrite, just letting you know to look at big picture.

If you and more importantly your wife, do go from monogamy to group sex in one sitting then hats off to you.
That's why some wife's who take control when they are being another cock's personal fuck slut ,will not let their husbands cum at all .
It keeps them in that desperate "I'll do anything" horny mode.
The wife comes home from being pounded and filled by her fuck buddy ,and when she spreads her legs and demands her sex slave to lick her clean
He is perpetually ready to lick her fuck buddies juice leaking out of her.
If She lets him cum ,he gets serious and jealous.
 
Hi all

Me and my wife are looking to make the full step to her being a hotwife.
It is something we have discussed during sex and after alcohol on and off for the past 5/6 years.
She has accepted she would like to try it on multiple occasions but we have just never made the step and would like to hear any suggestions as how to take the plunge.
We have reached out to multiple guys on adultwork who she thinks are hot but whenever we sober up/ out of sex mode the conversation never comes up again.
Whenever we have sex and the topic comes up I ansk her about her taking a big cock and each time she has mentioned “how about a black one”. When I brought it up after sex she insisted she was only joking but I do think it is something that turns her on.
When we have sex and discuss it she is as wet as it gets and always ends in us both having the best orgasms.
I’ve asked her around taking multiple men and she rejected the idea I think not trying to come across as slutty but the moans and groans and her wet pussy definitely told a different story.
The most intense sex we had was again after a few drinks. I tied her hands to the bed and she bent over perfectly with her pussy gaping waiting for a massive cock. I used a pair of her tights to blindfold her. We talked about multiple men coming in and just using her pussy, I have genuinely never seen her as turned on as she was. All she was saying was “let’s do it now” and “will they be big cocks?”. We then kind of roll played and I would leave the room for a few minutes and come back in pretending to be a different person each time. Again I don’t think I’ve ever seen her as turned on. This was the one and only time I have ever taken her up the ass. She has never ever been into it but I do think there is nothing she wouldn’t have done in the situation.
It was without doubt the best sex we have ever had.
Anyway - any suggestions would be great, I do feel like we are nearly there but it is just being in the right place and time
Hi,

That's a nice story, and it sounds like an amazing experience.

First of all, don't rush her or pressure her into making a decision. Take things slowly. You've already had good conversations that seem to be producing positive results. It's important for her to feel comfortable and confident that this lifestyle will not ruin your relationship. Have you discussed this with her?

Additionally, she should understand that this experience is meant to bring her pleasure, not just to satisfy your desires. Make sure you are always on her side and let her know that you love all aspects of her nature, whatever they may be. Avoid forsing her into decisions; instead, continue to show her your deep love.

Wonders can happen, and I know this from experience.

Good luck, and enjoy each other!