Cuck needs some advise

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  1. jaxfuncouple

    jaxfuncouple New Member

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    We are a mature couple relatively new to the lifestyle (56/42). We have been doing this for about 6 months now. We have outstanding communication skills and can talk to each other about most anything. Since everybody is different there is no set road map to navigate this lifestyle. We tend to wander down the hotwife/cuck road and deal with things as they happen. The wife has fucked 5 different guys in the last six months. Recently, she has been chatting up this one perspective bull. We have already done a meet and greet with him. She is quite attracted to him. She says he's very flattering and funny. They have a good morning text on her way to work, and a good night text before bed, and one or two calls during the day. I've never had problems with her texting her Bulls. We have access to each others phones. But I have issue with what I feel is excessive and unnecessary conversations with this new guy. She's never had this much contact with any of her previous bulls. I think we may need to come up with some new boundaries when it comes this type of thing. Btw I'm not really impressed with this guy. A lot of the stuff he said during the meet and great made me think he was more of a "want to be" bull than one in fact. I guess my opinion there doesn't matter since I'm not going to be the one fucking him. Am I just wigging out, or should I be concerned?
     
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    There are certain risk?
     
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    Since I posted this thread we have talked about the situation quite a bit and the wife understood my concerns. She also thinks its mostly cuck angst on my part. Never the less we had a play date with the guy in question. When the two of them got down to business we were both a little confused about his dick size. Apparently, on the internet things are much larger than they are in reality. His dick was actually smaller than mine. I'm certainly no porn star and probably average at best. I thought to my self this is not going to end well for him, but he ended up surprising us both. The man could certainly eat some pussy! The wife said his dick was just big enough to hit her G spot head on. I've never seen her squirt so much in the time we've been together. They fucked almost non-stop for three hours and soaked every towel in the house. I must say I was a little jealous of how easily he made her cum. All in all it was a good time for everyone. They still talk on a daily basis but not as much as they did before the play date. I no longer have any real angst when it comes to him.
     
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    So I guess the moral of this is, 'don't judge a book by it's cover"'
     
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    jaxfuncouple New Member

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    Perhaps, He definitely made it to her bull pen. He's not the large cocked alpha stud she normally gravitates toward. But for those times that she just wants G spot orgasms he would definitely fit the bill.
     
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    Before meeting y wife, she had hundreds of men. She says large cocks are not always pleasurable, as they bottom out and hurt. She prefers fat dicks.

    I used to be what I considered small, then after visiting a sex club I realized I was average. Now after years of non-use, and subsequent atrophy, I am 4 1/2" at best fully 'erect', definitely under-sized. She doesn't fuck me anymore. Seeing my now, small dick, I wouldn't want to either. Pretty sad!
     
  8. adcat

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    My wife has expressed an interest in having sex with a mutual friend. I am more than willing for her to have him in a threesome with myself. I have just no idea how to broach the subject with him. Do I just break it to him that my wife wants a threesome with him or is there another approach that may be more discrete.
     
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    adcat,

    You gave few details, but there a lot of questions that need be asked and answered:
    1 - does she want to have sex with another guy and picked him or is it him that she actually wants?
    2 - what kind of sex is she after, oral or coitus?
    3 - did she say 3-some or is that your interpretation?
    4 - is she desirous of a LTR or is it OTO?
    5 - how will her relationship with him be affected afterwards?
    6 - how will your relationship with him be affected afterwards?
    7 - how will your and her relationship be affected afterwards?
    8 - does he have a braggarts mouth or can he keep silent?
    9 - how will you feel seeing your honey with her arms around him embracing in a passionate kiss as he slides his dick in her?
    10 - can you handle him cumming in her?
    11 - are you prepared to be a cuckold rather than a willing part of a 3-some?

    These are just some of what you need to consider.

    Sex is a team sport, and everyone must be using the same playbook.

    Remember coming here for advice is like an alcoholic going to a bar for advice.
     
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    As an update to our previous entry, I would like to give you a description of what happened. My wife and I had been for a few drinks with our friend and on returning from the pub my wife, Cat invited Jim, our friend. in for a nightcap. After a few more drinks Cat sat next to me on the sofa and brushed her breasts against my arm. I took this as a hint and reached over and cupped her breast, from where he sat Jim could plainly see my actions. Cat took no notice or did nothing to remove my hand. I then started to undo the buttons on her blouse, eventually all the buttons undone I am sure Jim could see her nipples through her bra. At this point she got up and moved over to where he sat and took the glass from his hand and placed his hands on her breasts. He looked at me as if to gain my ok. I just shrugged. Now Cat removed her blouse and reached behind her and undid her bra. Her naked breasts just in front of Jims face. She then started to undo his shirt, eventually removing it and then pressed her breasts against his chest. She then put her hand down the front of his trousers and began rubbing his penis. Cat then stood back and removed her skirt and slid down her panties and there was my wife naked before another man. He looked at me and I told him to go ahead. His hands moved to her breasts and then down to between her legs, she moved them apart and I could see that he had entered her. Cat now undid his belt and pulled down his trousers and underpants. Jim was erect and she started to gently masturbate his penis. She then moved away from him and sat on the sofa next to me, she opened her legs too give Jim a good view of her pussy. She beckoned him over and he knelt on the floor between her legs. I was fascinated as he moved closer to her until the tip of his penis touched her vagina. She reached down and guided him into her. I found it amazing watching another man's penis slide into my wife. Cat reached over and held my hand as Jim gently moved his penis in and out of her. She stretched over and kissed me on the lips, I found this fantastically erotic. Jim was by now moving in and out of her with increasing passion. Suddenly he forced his penis into her as hard as he could and moaned as he shot his load into her. After a short while he withdrew from her and as I watched some of his semen oozed from her, she looked at me and smiled. After a short while Jim left and we were left alone. We talked for a while about our feelings about what had happened that night. We went to bed and she said to me your turn now. She was still wet from another man's semen and I entered her easily after a short while I too ejaculated into her. A fantastic night was had by all.
     
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    How did you each feel afterwards?
     
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    In reply to your question how did we feel after threesome, my wife was very keen to try again and I enjoyed seeing another man inside her. We went so far as to contact a swingers site locally. This turned into us visiting a local address where we had been invited to a party. After a few drinks and nibbles one of the women present started to become quite amorous and undid the front of her blouse and displayed her breasts. This seemed to be the trigger for the rest to join in. (There were 4 women and 6 men.) I noticed one man move towards Cat and start to fondle her tits, she responded by rubbing his cock. As I looked round other couples were in various staged of undress and in a short while all were naked. Cat had been stripped by one of the men and was being fingered by him. I was the only one remaining that was still clothed, I had taken my camera and no one objected to and pictures being taken. All around there were couples engaged in sexual activity. I looked at Cat and she was sucking one man's cock while another was down on her she was moaning and writhing with pleasure. This continued all evening with partners constantly changing . At one point Cat was being taken from behind by one of the men while performing oral sex on one of the women. On the way back she said she had been had by at least 5 different men and was so full of spunk she was leaking. I had taken some spectacular pictures which we get out now and again too remind ourselves. Cat now wants to try having sex with at least 4 men at the same time. I just get a kick out of watching her perform.
     
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    Thanks for the reply.
     
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    For me, clearly set out boundaries were key - I really agonised over 5, 6 7 & 8 - it turned out fine though.
    as for the rest - 1. He picked her out, and started stroking her (he was our best friend)
    2. Coitus.
    3. I was excluded from the action, he never knew I was aware he was fucking her
    4 ???? LTR ? OTO ?
    8. He was very discreet
    9 . see 3 above. I never saw them, wish I had, would have loved to see them kissing.
    10 - Yes, he did on their first time - and I loved licking it up afterwards
    11. Yes - and I loved every minute of the 7 years he was screwing her.