- May 27, 2016
We are a mature couple relatively new to the lifestyle (56/42). We have been doing this for about 6 months now. We have outstanding communication skills and can talk to each other about most anything. Since everybody is different there is no set road map to navigate this lifestyle. We tend to wander down the hotwife/cuck road and deal with things as they happen. The wife has fucked 5 different guys in the last six months. Recently, she has been chatting up this one perspective bull. We have already done a meet and greet with him. She is quite attracted to him. She says he's very flattering and funny. They have a good morning text on her way to work, and a good night text before bed, and one or two calls during the day. I've never had problems with her texting her Bulls. We have access to each others phones. But I have issue with what I feel is excessive and unnecessary conversations with this new guy. She's never had this much contact with any of her previous bulls. I think we may need to come up with some new boundaries when it comes this type of thing. Btw I'm not really impressed with this guy. A lot of the stuff he said during the meet and great made me think he was more of a "want to be" bull than one in fact. I guess my opinion there doesn't matter since I'm not going to be the one fucking him. Am I just wigging out, or should I be concerned?