Curious to the hotwife in this lifestyle what type of person were you when growing up

my wife asked her friend if she would get her boyfriend to take her virginity her friend had been telling her how good sex was, and she agreed, and the boyfriend fucked her he also was annoyed with her for in is words( you need to move your arse more )she never needed telling again,they had threesomes for the next 12 months...she was 13 and very active from then on .
 
Growing up in a small town I didn't have sex until I was 21 and living in a big city because some men like to use derogatory names for women that like sex on the same terms as men. I didn't share myself with them then, I don't share myself with them now.

Honestly men can be their own worst enemy, they would enjoy a lot more sex if they wouldn't do that until the woman asks her lover to refer to her in those terms.

My cuckold and my Lovers think of me as a Sex Angel, By the way, I have a MBA as do several of my Lifestyle girlfriends.
 
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I was very responsible, driven and quite "OCD" about everything, including school work. I began a lifelong obsession with "fitness" at an early age, played tennis, had tennis instructors (who made me what I became sexually) and began training with weights and running/hiking. I was EXTREMELY sexually driven at an early age as well. I developed breasts early and had a fascination with sexual pleasure and masturbation and loved the sensation of anal stimulation. I had orgasms at a very young age. I discovered porn magazines my dad kept by the tons hidden out in the garage. I obsessed over the men and girls and as you've read in my stories, always wanted to have sex with girls. I was just very afraid that others in school would find out. I experimented with girls at an early age. I began making out and exploring with my friend Cher, who stayed over at my house and slept with me (innocent enough at that age, right?) frequently. I read "romance" novels at an early age and they turned me on. I was pretty much horny all the time. But then again, maybe most girls coming of age are as well.

My parents were gone quite a bit so my sister and i were left to explore sex with our neighbor friends Matt and Jay. You've read about them. With me, it was pretty much anal and oral with them but other things would happen along. My junior year of high school I started a relationship with Matt's late thirties year old father (Matt and Jay were off to college) and he was basically my secret "boyfriend" that year. I "allow" that it was him who officially took my virginity when I was 16, but...you know....

My senior year of high school I began working for one of my former tennis instructors (Steph's husband) doing billing for his doctor practice. There is WAY more to this story and that relationship began with his wife Steph (who was in her mid twenties and my initial tennis instructor). I really wish I could relate this story but I don't think I am allowed to do so on this forum. I can tell you that she "groomed" me from an early age as a "nymphet". She was only 14 when she had met her future doctor husband (Dr Bob) and was a nymphet as well. They eventually married and I had an affair with her husband my entire senior year of HS, with Steph's full knowledge. They had an "open relationship" and she had lots of boyfriends over. She "groomed" me to be a sexual "play thing" for her, her boyfriends and her husband. Don't get me wrong, I don't regret a minute of it, it's just that I can't tell any details of this situation (I don't think). I will reveal that unlike my stories have stated, Steph was very involved with me sexually when I was a nymphet as were her boyfriends and husband. Everything else about my stories with girls is pretty much true, but I hope it is ok with the mods to reveal this.

I really had no interest in dating guys my age or at my school. I also found my first "girlfriend" who I met at the gym. I owe her an apology for calling her "girlfriend" because she was very adamant that we were not "lesbians" (even though we had a sexual relationship) and she did as much as possible to discourage me from being too "sexual" with her. Daize (Daisy) was very instrumental in many ways and she slept over with me as a "friend" frequently. I will eventually tell the story of how my dad became very worried about what the two of us were doing! lol She was wise and she was concerned that I might start down a path toward becoming a lesbian and miserable if she promoted it. These were far different times than today but still, I would have fallen in love with her, I probably actually did so. She knew I was in to girls and her problem was that she was so attracted to me so completely that no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't stop sleeping with me. She did her best to do what I did with Cher, but in the end she would eat my pussy but not allow me to eat hers. But you know how that goes. Just like Cher, I did taste her quite a bit. Mostly I masturbated her with my fingers and kissed around her pubic area. She did whatever she wanted with me, and that was everything! We had a great time. She was college age, I was still in HS.

I was older than Dolores Haze, but not by much, when all of this started. I was like her in some ways too. This is probably too long and a bit convoluted for the topic, but it would be much clearer if I could have spoken freely from the start on this site, on my lifestyle sites and in my LSM articles. It's just difficult to say enough for people to read through the lines but not reveal that which is prohibited or frowned upon. My nymphet days pretty much came to a close soon after I started high school and playing with Matt and Jay.

I only had a few actual (more than just a nymphet plaything) sexual partners until I married my husband. He and I were very adventurous from the start and soon after we married, ( by "soon" I mean immediately after), I began cheating with other guys and did so constantly. I had told him on our wedding night that I would be faithful too him in every way except sexually, and that he was going to have to share my body with other men (in so many words). He accepted that but didn't think I really meant it at the time. He would soon find out that I did. I turned into an actual "slut" in the few months after my marriage and I have remained so the entire time. I was married and so confident in my sexual freedom at that point. Eventually he just sort of "figured out" that I was cheating and it eventually became an open secret and then accepted. We eventually entered the lifestyle with mixed results. I settled on "hotwifing" as our primary sexual dalliance these days.
Your story is wonderfully hot. Please DM me the parts that you don't want to post here...
 
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I don't consider myself a hotwif so much as a cuckoldress. Growing up I'll admit I was a bitch. At least to my future husband.We lived near each other and he was something of a wimp or a sissy.I was attracted to teasing him and getting him in trouble.When he got in hot water his mom used to whip him with a leather strap. Sometimes I would be there to see it. Watching it for some strange reason made me laugh. I enjoyed it but didn't know why.Then I felt a little guilty and sad for him but as I witnessed this more and more the guilt went away and my enjoyment of it got stronger. I wanted to use that strap on him myself. As we got older this enjoyment of watching someone like at school get punished started to turn me on sexually. I always wanted to spank the boys I went out with but they thought it was wierd or a few wanted to spank me instead. I remember one guy saying the guy should spank the girl and only sissies let a girl spank them. I knew then who I was going to spank. We kinda went through high school as a dom/sub couple sort of. I wore the pants if you know what I mean. But he was such wimp and I found out when we were experimenting with sex that he had a very tiny cock compared to other guys and couldn't do anything for me.This gave me more reason to dominate and humiliate him and when I did It made me want to be with some of the more macho guys. So I developed two sides to my personality. I was smart in school straight As but also something of a whore. The guys all wanted me because I had larger than avg breasts and a pretty face and athletic body. So I whored a lot but still played hard to get and avoided the reputation for being easy.I loved to tease and play games. One thing I loved to do was fuck certian guys and deny others. This one guy was so bad after me and he was actually hot but I deliberately refused him time after time just for fun. The real kick was he had a best friend who was a lot less attractive and I fucked and sucked him constantly while giving the looser nothing but friendzone treatment. He could not understand why I fucked his buddy but not him and I would make it worse by flirting with him and giving him false hope.I loved doing this and I'll bet I made him jerk off more than once. I was a beeeaaatch growing up.