How did your wife learn about chastity cages? I know mine doesn't have a clue about them. We never really have sex that often, sometimes once week, sometimes twice a month. So, I found relief through porn and masturbation. I just want to change the routine somehow. Maybe chastity could do that. I don't know but I'd be willing to try.
How long have you been caged? Now that you have to be "good" to get your release, how often do you get your release now? Since your locked up now, what classifies as "not" being on your "best behavior"? What instantly draws her ire?