I like your cleaver analogy but again you are trying to speak for everyone when you say "no woman with a lfetime..." My wife has her prime beef fulltime if she wants it. Her bull is a gentleman but is amused by her command over me and if she tells him I did something bad and and Ineed to be punished then at her instructions he will take his belt and whip my ass.They both get turned on by this and usually have sex right after.My wife has a sadistic nature which means she is sexually excited by inflictting pain and humiliation. I am the opposite in that as a masochist I enjoy this treatment. She has a bull (her prime beef) for sex as she loves big strong men and on the other side of her she enjoys dominating her weak husband.So she enjoys both worlds, a well endowed man for the physical and an obedient nancy-boy for the emotional needs she has.She gets a good fuck and a glass of wine or giving her a foot massage.He comes over and gets a good laugh to see such a piece of work and knows that he is the king of the house. He enjoys knowing that he is about to recieve a prime piece of ass while I'm cleaning and waxing his car or scrubing his laundry. I'm not old,or fat or ugly, I'm thin, feminine and submissive and with a little make up and some nice clothes I can pass for a fairly attractive girl.Of course I'm no comparison to my wife, that not the idea but I'm not an old cocktail weenie I'm their stimulant maybe like the wine they sip.