Been trying to slowly turn my gf (f21) into a hotwife, with different tactics, being gentle and slow, but it looks like its not gonna work. Its my biggest fantasy, and i dont know what to do now. Will I be able to push trough the relationship without ever trying it? Or will it always be in my mind until I cant take it anymore? Or is there still a chance?
Do i give up on my young gf?
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I think the biggest challenge is for her to realize that it's okay for you to see her with another man and that the traditional societal view no longer prevails as much as it once did...
Am in a similar situation with my 22yo girlfriend and she sometimes agrees but says it’s only to please me
That scares me. I am not afraid to lead her into something I know she will eventually enjoy, she had dragged me into a few things herself.
But something that is that big without her being 100% enthusiastic? I don't want her to eventually resent me.
A sushi restaurant is something, this is just so big.
Yeah I understand where your coming from and my girlfriend his a proper naughty little slut for me so am going to just slowly see how things go or progress and reassure her you love her
Get her to show off in a bar or at the beach, show her how guys hitting on her makes you hard
I think a good foundation for hotwife material is being a bit of a showoff and/or tease. Like @Wantsomefunto said, maybe start off small like at a beach. My wife and I started going to nude beaches when we were still dating and that was our entry into the Lifestyle.
But I think if she's the type who would never bare herself on a nude beach then she is likely not hotwife material.
But I think if she's the type who would never bare herself on a nude beach then she is likely not hotwife material.
We got into this LS around your age so maybe we can help here.
You said this is something you want to try. Explain to her that you're both young and you want to experiment and try new things with her. This should also open up a conversation about things she might want to explore as well. Be open minded to what she wants too.
The next thing you need to do is take away any stigma that she thinks might be attached to her entering this LS. Always reassure her that your feelings for her will never change because of it.
What exactly are you looking for in this situation? What is your fantasy? Maybe a MFM threesome would be a good entryway into the broader LS.
You said this is something you want to try. Explain to her that you're both young and you want to experiment and try new things with her. This should also open up a conversation about things she might want to explore as well. Be open minded to what she wants too.
The next thing you need to do is take away any stigma that she thinks might be attached to her entering this LS. Always reassure her that your feelings for her will never change because of it.
What exactly are you looking for in this situation? What is your fantasy? Maybe a MFM threesome would be a good entryway into the broader LS.
See is she is willing to go to a swingers club. You dont have to have sex with anyone. Just dance and talk to people in the lifestyle. She will meet some other women she likes, maybe not in a sexual way but they will talk
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