Do you believe you own your wife's pussy sexually or does one of her "previous loves" still own it because of the way he dominated her sexually?

Do you believe your wife's pussy is still owned by one of her ex's big cock

  • Yes, that's for certain

    Votes: 15 51.7%
  • Not sure he owns it, but he's still her go to for sex

    Votes: 5 17.2%
  • No, she's not like that

    Votes: 9 31.0%

  • Total voters
    29

Cassy84

Female
Please don't take this the wrong way, I love and adore my husband in every way, but there has been a few of my previous lovers that were at least as good in bed as my husband is. One of these guys is by far and away a better or more compatible lover with me who has been my go-to guy for great sex for over 20 years and I'm now 40 years old. Way back when I first started dating this guy, he asked me who owned my pussy sexually and I enthusiastically admitted no guy has ever earned the right to own me sexually the way you have, so till I tell you differently my pussy is yours to use whenever you want it. He made the same commitment to me about his wonderful bigger the average size penis. Over time we drifted apart in our personal and professional likes and dislikes, but through thick and thin we have remained lovers to this day. To me my husband is by far and away a “better” man in every sense of the word except for his love making skills, the “Ex” as I call him her is the only guy that I’ve made love to that goes close to making me continually orgasm form the time he enters me till he pulls out. So, to this day my Ex still has the right to own and use my pussy sexually, even though my lovely husband in a way owns me through marriage.
 
I 100% understand what you are saying. My soon to be ex wife was great in bed. However, I had different experiences with different women in my lifetime. Our sex was always in the bedroom. An ex of mine, she was the anywhere, anytime kind of woman. Sex with my ex was more spontaneous. We had sex in public places. We would try toys, different positions, watch porn and the list goes on. The sex my my soon to be ex wife always felt great as long as it was within the confines of our bedroom. The spontaneity I like wasn’t there.
As far as the “performance” aspect of sex, I feel no one partner was 100% better than anyone else. Different body types, feelings and energy play a role in the sex. Also, everyone does things different. Don’t necessarily mean better.
 
My wife definitely still fantasizes about her ex and hopes she gets the chance to have him again. She’s always said he was by far the best she’s ever had.
 
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Please don't take this the wrong way, I love and adore my husband in every way, but there has been a few of my previous lovers that were at least as good in bed as my husband is. One of these guys is by far and away a better or more compatible lover with me who has been my go-to guy for great sex for over 20 years and I'm now 40 years old. Way back when I first started dating this guy, he asked me who owned my pussy sexually and I enthusiastically admitted no guy has ever earned the right to own me sexually the way you have, so till I tell you differently my pussy is yours to use whenever you want it. He made the same commitment to me about his wonderful bigger the average size penis. Over time we drifted apart in our personal and professional likes and dislikes, but through thick and thin we have remained lovers to this day. To me my husband is by far and away a “better” man in every sense of the word except for his love making skills, the “Ex” as I call him her is the only guy that I’ve made love to that goes close to making me continually orgasm form the time he enters me till he pulls out. So, to this day my Ex still has the right to own and use my pussy sexually, even though my lovely husband in a way owns me through marriage.
Does your husband know you still fuck him?
 
Don't take this wrong way but does your husband enjoy being the "better" man in every other way EXCEPT sexually? I get that there will always be bigger, better, younger, stronger lovers out there. I would guess anytime your husband has sex with you he can't help but think you'd rather be with your "ex". Have you ever asked your husband about your preference for your "ex"? Have you ever discussed how your preference affects your husband's confidence? I just wonder (and honestly so) if you are sensitive to the spot your husband is in.

Please don't take this as an attack because it isn't. You're clearly happy with the situation and if you're convinced your husband is happy then it's all good! Once again, this is not an attack. I'm just very curious as to how people make a situation like yours truly work for as long as you've made it work. You've had to of had some difficult times in 20 years of having a FWB.
 
I have always fucked a woman with the intention and mindset ,” that I’m going to be her best fuck ever!” I keep repeating those thought during sex and it definitely makes me preform better!

I can’t tell you how many times they come back for more. Sometimes years later there emailing me to meet up. I know I own all those pussies!!!

DM me if your interested
 
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Please don't take this the wrong way, I love and adore my husband in every way, but there has been a few of my previous lovers that were at least as good in bed as my husband is. One of these guys is by far and away a better or more compatible lover with me who has been my go-to guy for great sex for over 20 years and I'm now 40 years old. Way back when I first started dating this guy, he asked me who owned my pussy sexually and I enthusiastically admitted no guy has ever earned the right to own me sexually the way you have, so till I tell you differently my pussy is yours to use whenever you want it. He made the same commitment to me about his wonderful bigger the average size penis. Over time we drifted apart in our personal and professional likes and dislikes, but through thick and thin we have remained lovers to this day. To me my husband is by far and away a “better” man in every sense of the word except for his love making skills, the “Ex” as I call him her is the only guy that I’ve made love to that goes close to making me continually orgasm form the time he enters me till he pulls out. So, to this day my Ex still has the right to own and use my pussy sexually, even though my lovely husband in a way owns me through marriage.
Reading your post, I feel like my ex wrote it. She tells me the same stuff and I’ve been fucking her since I was 18. Now at 45 still own her pussy. The best is when there’s been sometime between sex, she tells me to reclaim her pussy. I melt every time and my cock gets so fucking hard.
The way she can tell how much I miss her is by the amount of cum I shoot all over her.
 
I don’t think I’ve ever felt that way. Her cheating, though it was before marriage, may play a part in that. I suppose I feel like the man who more rightly may own that distinction was one of her young lovers back then, or that he may still be out there, a future partner! I like thinking so anyhow!!
 
I can honestly say that my affairs I have had over the years all ended friendly, usually because their wife was asking too many questions about how much overtime they were working (I am always readily available to my Lovers and let them know this, so they work a LOT of overtime!! LOL).And if any of them called me tonite for a date, I would be ready to start back up where we left off.
There are two Lovers tho that REALLY stand out, both were Black and very opposite types.........one I was simply unable to say NO to, ANYTHING he wanted I did eventually. He was whoring my out in bars and clubs and I LOVED it, and I even did a few "outcalls" for him. He would call me at work, tell me where to go and what to do and I did it. Our relationship ended when he was busted for ...... and it's probably a good thing as he had told me he was "going to put your ass on the street for me" and I could not WAIT!!! I never once considered the headlines about a top corporate executive for a major company in the area being arrested for streetwalking..........and what I stood to lose. I just wanted to do this for him. He literally owned me and told me regularly that my pussy was his to use as he saw fit. I loved it.
The other was a totally opposite college graduate professional, like my husband. He is, to this day, the largest endowed Lover I have had. An honest 11" (measured on top were it extend out from the abdomen to the tip, not behond the balls like most guys measure!!) and he was as thick as my wrist!! I can go on FOREVER about him, but suffice to say we fell HARD for each other and even considered ending our marriages for each other. We got SO intense that we decided that we wanted a pregnancy together and his wife caught us and gave him an ultimatum and we never got together again.....I was depressed for a year!! He definitely owned me, and I wanted to give him my womb too.......if he showed up tonight, I would make sure that we made that happen ASAP!!

J (the wife)
 
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Please don't take this the wrong way, I love and adore my husband in every way, but there has been a few of my previous lovers that were at least as good in bed as my husband is. One of these guys is by far and away a better or more compatible lover with me who has been my go-to guy for great sex for over 20 years and I'm now 40 years old. Way back when I first started dating this guy, he asked me who owned my pussy sexually and I enthusiastically admitted no guy has ever earned the right to own me sexually the way you have, so till I tell you differently my pussy is yours to use whenever you want it. He made the same commitment to me about his wonderful bigger the average size penis. Over time we drifted apart in our personal and professional likes and dislikes, but through thick and thin we have remained lovers to this day. To me my husband is by far and away a “better” man in every sense of the word except for his love making skills, the “Ex” as I call him her is the only guy that I’ve made love to that goes close to making me continually orgasm form the time he enters me till he pulls out. So, to this day my Ex still has the right to own and use my pussy sexually, even though my lovely husband in a way owns me through marriage.
I hear you. My wife is mine, but weve invited her ex fuck buddy (from before we met) to join us, because he has a HUGE cock. This was 10½ years ago,and he is a regular of ours to this day. He just recently spent the weekend here with us, and clothes were not an option. She told me after the first time he joined us that she would've made it happen sooner but she was worried about my male ego and how I'd handle being naked next to him due to our size difference. Now we spend weekends together completely naked. She'll tease me and say "I guess we aren't worried about your male ego any more" lol
 
my wife had a tongue kiss with a college student in junior high school, and also had a room with a classmate, breasts were also touched by her ex-boyfriend,but according to her, they didn't have sex, but never allow in before we got married. There was no virgin blood when I did it for the first time, so I always suspected that she was lying to me
 
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