We only get to visit her Dom a few times a year now that we've relocated, so every visit deserves all the detail I can preserve. I used to take a small paper notepad that I'd use to keep a travel diary at night in my room while they fucked in his bed. I love writing more detailed accounts of our visits later so I'll have the memories in our old age. I now have a small laptop used only for our visits, and keep a daily record of our adventures and my emotions and reactions. My memory was never great, and is declining as I age, so the real-time nightly diary is essential to capture all of it. I'm usually surprised by how much I forget after a week's visit with him, and the diary triggers all those memories that come flooding back when we get home. L reads my diaries as well, and contributes her own observations and emotions while I write the fuller accounts. Writing together is fun, and often reveals things we wouldn't otherwise think to describe to each other. Then all that goes into foreplay and fucking ASAP.
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