Does it always have to be rough?

In a lot of posts here I see that the hotwife has to be fucked rough. Are my wife and me the only ones who are not attracted to that in our cuckold/hotwife live? For her it's a game of flirting and getting seduced that will finally end in bed. We tried to explain this to a guy we had met online, but when coming over he thought to know better what my wife wanted. Curious how others here think of it.
 
In a lot of posts here I see that the hotwife has to be fucked rough. Are my wife and me the only ones who are not attracted to that in our cuckold/hotwife live? For her it's a game of flirting and getting seduced that will finally end in bed. We tried to explain this to a guy we had met online, but when coming over he thought to know better what my wife wanted. Curious how others here think of it.
For my husband and I, we like it rough. He enjoys feeling my well used pussy after I've been with another man/men. For me it's the way I've always liked it. Men seem to enjoy pounding a pussy hard, and I enjoy giving them what they want.
 
It shows how many shades of difference there are when it comes to this. But my wife is firmly in the no-roughness, softer romantic approach camp. Now if passions call for it, she's fine with some good hard fucking as part of an otherwise generally gentle and sexy encounter. She is the "princess" and she doesn't want any man to forget that.
 
In a lot of posts here I see that the hotwife has to be fucked rough. Are my wife and me the only ones who are not attracted to that in our cuckold/hotwife live? For her it's a game of flirting and getting seduced that will finally end in bed. We tried to explain this to a guy we had met online, but when coming over he thought to know better what my wife wanted. Curious how others here think of it.
You’re far from the only ones. Pretty simple…like many such things it’s a male-driven, porn-fueled construct
 
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Very early in our marriage my wife had an ongoing affair with a married friend of ours. It was kept secret for some years, until guilt of her promiscuity made her come clean to me one day. I was a very premature ejaculator at that time and he evidently was not as he was the one who gave her, her first orgasm from penetration. When we would have sex and I would start to pound her hard (even though I knew it would end very quickly), she would start to get loud as she was building to an orgasm. However, I would finish when hearing her getting close and then it was over. Years later I asked her if the bf was rough when he would make her cum, and she said "no, he was just nice and gentle". So to each their own I guess for what works.
 
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Since we have stopped doing 3 ways eight years ago, Ive been encouraging wife to flirt and extra social at work. I find it hot when guys flirt and hit on her.
Back when we did 3 ways, both of us enjoyed the hot sex with another guy, no so much rough housing it
but then again we never found a regular to buld up a rough sex mentality
 
Depends what's considered rough. My wife loves guys who take charge. A mixture of lover and making her his. She loves satisfying men. We had one guy who was 20 years younger and had a huge cock she would have done anything to please him. There was a lot of ass slapping ball sucking and many facials. He took charge which she liked but I would not call it rough. Hate the term slut but she could be that with the right guy.
 
Depends what's considered rough. My wife loves guys who take charge. A mixture of lover and making her his. She loves satisfying men. We had one guy who was 20 years younger and had a huge cock she would have done anything to please him. There was a lot of ass slapping ball sucking and many facials. He took charge which she liked but I would not call it rough. Hate the term slut but she could be that with the right guy.
Yeah I’ve been that guy. I get in their head to the point they want to, need to please me