Does No mean Yes?

[rbh4445]

We are a 50 year old couple and over a year ago I sent my wife a text containing a brochure for a swingers club that I found intriguing. Of course there were questions but she didn’t hesitate to say yes to going and checking it out. Fast forward til May 2023 we have been to club(s) several times the past year. She knows I want her to fuck another guy while I watch. So two weeks ago we were in the club late and seated in the play room on a couch just watching people fuck and be merry when a black gentleman approached and began flirting with my wife. It got her extremely hot but when he walked off she said she wasn’t into black guys. I asked her if she was into Latinos and whites? She said yes if they were cute…….
So the whole week I’m really worked up and trying to figure out how to approach this outside the club and without alcohol involved. We return to the club the next Friday which was two days ago. We returned to the same couch late in the night and began watching and her getting hotter and hornier with every passing minute. Well the place had cleared out somewhat and just a few single guys still hanging around.
Sitting there she said she wanted me to stick my finger in her, so I did. The whole time there is a young gentleman sitting adjacent to us with a million dollar view of my wife’s uncovered pussy. So he’s 3 feet away watching me finger her and she’s kinda bucking up and down. As I stroked my finger in and out I noticed he had reached over and started rubbing the inside of her thigh. When he touched her I think it made her cum. She got soaked. So I sat there a few minutes fingering and him rubbing I noticed he got up and approached my wife’s opposite side and he asked her if he could rub her tits, she softly said no, so he walked off and I finished her finger fuck moments later.
She knew he was staring at her pussy and I think she really enjoyed it from the orgasm when he touched her.
I think she really wanted to say yes.

 

[sri65]

I think you are doing the right thing. Don't force her and she will gradually move on to "getting help" from the other guys to reach a better and more pleasurable orgasm.It took my wife almost a year of web cam-ing before she transitioned to the real thing.... All the best.

 

[btweets]

I think you are doing the right thing. Don't force her and she will gradually move on to "getting help" from the other guys to reach a better and more pleasurable orgasm.It took my wife almost a year of web cam-ing before she transitioned to the real thing.... All the best.

I agree with you sri65! To rbh4445, keep the course with what you’ve been doing. She’s clearly and obviously interested and is more than likely getting closer taking the next step at any given moment. I’d say being that she enjoys going to the club and in the environment, she just needs to find herself in the right moment, at the right time, and with the right person. One thing you might even want to try is, when you’re at the club with her, play with her and get her excited but not too excited! Kind of like reverse psychology, get her juices flowing, but pull back a little so her sexual needs and desires are right on the edge but not met, or where she wants them to be, or that she isn’t even sure she’s going to get them from you. She might unconsciously allow herself to become more accepting getting them from someone else, timing is everything.. Good luck and keep us posted please!

 

[Ferox80]

We are a 50 year old couple and over a year ago I sent my wife a text containing a brochure for a swingers club that I found intriguing. Of course there were questions but she didn’t hesitate to say yes to going and checking it out. Fast forward til May 2023 we have been to club(s) several times the past year. She knows I want her to fuck another guy while I watch. So two weeks ago we were in the club late and seated in the play room on a couch just watching people fuck and be merry when a black gentleman approached and began flirting with my wife. It got her extremely hot but when he walked off she said she wasn’t into black guys. I asked her if she was into Latinos and whites? She said yes if they were cute…….
So the whole week I’m really worked up and trying to figure out how to approach this outside the club and without alcohol involved. We return to the club the next Friday which was two days ago. We returned to the same couch late in the night and began watching and her getting hotter and hornier with every passing minute. Well the place had cleared out somewhat and just a few single guys still hanging around.
Sitting there she said she wanted me to stick my finger in her, so I did. The whole time there is a young gentleman sitting adjacent to us with a million dollar view of my wife’s uncovered pussy. So he’s 3 feet away watching me finger her and she’s kinda bucking up and down. As I stroked my finger in and out I noticed he had reached over and started rubbing the inside of her thigh. When he touched her I think it made her cum. She got soaked. So I sat there a few minutes fingering and him rubbing I noticed he got up and approached my wife’s opposite side and he asked her if he could rub her tits, she softly said no, so he walked off and I finished her finger fuck moments later.
She knew he was staring at her pussy and I think she really enjoyed it from the orgasm when he touched her.
I think she really wanted to say yes.

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