That's not an end to desire or sex by a long shot. It's an entirely viable thing to take pleasure from her being with other men…..if that's your chosen path. There are plenty of couples who open an unexpectedly rich and rewarding chapter sexually when the husband -- for whatever reason -- can no longer perform in that way. I think it mainly depends on them keeping open minds, listening to each other, and figuring it out together. Cuckolding represents love for most couples, and a remarkably evolved level of sensitivity and acceptance…communication and connection.
It has to be a different kind of erotic charge for him, but a husband -- even one not fucking -- can find a new footing, give and take pleasure, derive terrific excitement and great satisfaction, and contribute to those things for his wife. And learn take pride in her, and also in his place in all of it.
Whether it be more voyeuristic or participatory, or combines elements of both, is up to the couple, but the wife's sexual exploits with other men becoming the fulcrum can hold thrilling possibility and growth potential.
