Good post! Definitely one of the most erotic scenes a husband will ever have. Especially if it's the first new cock she's had since she married you, and even more erotic if she picked the guy and brought him home to the marital bed. To quote my own wife "once it starts, there's no going back"....it's an erotic scene loaded with meaning and consequences.
Such a turn on when wife goes with out bra in the right top. It happened many years ago now but, once we were having a drink at local pub and I asked her to go to bathroom room and take off bra. She came out with extremely hard nips. Never forget it.
I like your idea but I want to up at one ask her to leave the house without the bra leave it laying on the dresser and then ask her in the middle of dinner to lose the panties without leaving the table