My mates ......,¿ she is in a normal relationship with her partner but she knows my wife fucks who she wants and I let her , indeed i help  her ,  she is often asking me questions, And is now taking charge and ordering me about, things she wants me to do or not do ,  it's gradual but its beginning to look  fun having a 30 year old in charge, her dad , my mate seems to be encouraging her, he's the same age as me we're in our 70s.!!!!!