The other night my husband and I were laying in bed together looking thru messages and talking to guys online on the site we're using to find a guy. We fooled around while talking about the guys and it lead to incredibally intense sex. I felt a closeness to him I'd never experienced before and I think it's because we about to embark on this alternative sexual lifestyle that takes a rock solid relationship to invite another man to bed. As you all well know, it takes a level of honesty and communication unknown to most conventional relationships.
That being said, it got me thinking about the emotional side to the hotwife lifestyle. I'm now wondering if I'll ever develope feelings for the other guy. Is it common for that to happen? If so, how have you husbands and wives dealt with it? Is it best to ignore them and keep going or end things with the guy and find another? I'm not looking for a polyamorous marriage at all so I'd like to keep feelings out of it but I'm not sure how realistic that is.
That being said, it got me thinking about the emotional side to the hotwife lifestyle. I'm now wondering if I'll ever develope feelings for the other guy. Is it common for that to happen? If so, how have you husbands and wives dealt with it? Is it best to ignore them and keep going or end things with the guy and find another? I'm not looking for a polyamorous marriage at all so I'd like to keep feelings out of it but I'm not sure how realistic that is.