First Date Nerves
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If he is worth anything he will make you feel comfortable and be enjoyable to talk with. Great ice breaker! Good luck and have fun!
Hi Jen, if you're just doing this to keep him happy, then you need to take a long, hard think about your relationship. From a wealth of personal experience and that of watching other relationships implode - not to mention a litany of similar stories here - you of all people must be into this.
It's ok to be nervous at first, but if you are not properly on board with this, then it's a serious problem and you need to sit down with Mark and work it out because it will eat into your relationship.
If you do decide to go ahead with it, then put yourself in the driving seat. You set the rules and Mark must obey (he'll probably get a kick out of that). Or else. And go at your own pace. You choose the guy, where, when, how. It may also be an opportunity to try out any kinks you have that you were too embarrassed to ask Mark to do.
But do not feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to do. Know that you can walk away at any time.
Let us know how the date went.
Bear
Well.. I'm back, and no I didn't stay the night or anything, just drinks and a meet up, buuuut, omg lol š¤
To sum up: Goosebumps, tingles and giddiness š« Mark getting me ready for the date was actually almost the most intense part, then the date itself, arriving, introducing, and (thankfully) soon turning into pretty natural chat about this and that and being made to feel more than a little princessy which I can definitively say I approve of š¤š
It sounds like you had a great time! Best wishes in the future.
Beka had many of the same feelings you did/ do, she definitely likes the attention of two men.
Beka had many of the same feelings you did/ do, she definitely likes the attention of two men.
I imagine he was very excited and also treated her like a princess!
Wonderful. I am glad that part went smoothly! Glad u got one the hardest parts done and out the way!
Over thinking is next part to over come. Don't set there wondering if you made a good enough impression. Or why it takes so long to get a reply. (I have heard all of it lol)
Focus on the fact that u are a beautiful woman, and more than one man will always find u attractive. And thankfully ur man, even if a little a little selfish for pushing you to do this, wants you to experience the freedom of sexuality.
Soon u both will be in a whirlwind of emotions. Talk openly about them.
Good luck sweetie. Keep us all posted.
And thanks for discussing the female side of being a newbie. I think it can help lots of real people if they take the time to read
Hopefully this weekend, we'll see š
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing your perspective on this. This is exactly what I want for my wife to experience. The thrill and excitement of first date jitters. The rush you must feel when you first make physical contact, a hand on your arm, shoulder or waist. The first kiss and having his hands run up and down your body.
Good for you girl. I hope you experience more firsts in your adventure and that sharing them with your SO leads to more great things.
Hopefully he shows his appreciation?
I'm glad you had a first time good experience , what's next do you think,š
Iām glad things went well. You know everyone on here wants to hear what happens next!
Was this date a good enough ice breaker to calm your nerves? Hopefully you are now looking forward to the second date.
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