First time alone

Give it a try, it is quiet the rush and it is very good for her
Maybe you need to take a half step and get adjoining rooms at a hotel or rooms in your home. You do a threesome before bed or just let them enjoy themselves. Then in the middle of the night she wakes you with a kiss and goes to visit her lover in another room where you can hear them having sex but you give them privacy. Then she returns to you after their middle of the night love making with a treat for you! Your call whether it is sloppy seconds or cream pie cleaning. Then in the morning you could just let them make love again or let the sex take its own course as to whether you are involved or not ... The hottest would be for you to have to go to work and you leave them in bed together as you depart!
 
Maybe you need to take a half step and get adjoining rooms at a hotel or rooms in your home. You do a threesome before bed or just let them enjoy themselves. Then in the middle of the night she wakes you with a kiss and goes to visit her lover in another room where you can hear them having sex but you give them privacy. Then she returns to you after their middle of the night love making with a treat for you! Your call whether it is sloppy seconds or cream pie cleaning. Then in the morning you could just let them make love again or let the sex take its own course as to whether you are involved or not ... The hottest would be for you to have to go to work and you leave them in bed together as you depart!
Exactly. My wife and I used the adjoining rooms scenario many times - there was a newer Best Western near our home - not a fleabag motel, but nowhere as costly as a big brand hotell. Besides, this isn't the time to worry about budgets. Cheaping out sends a negative signal to the wife. Most women I've known also like to spend the night in luxury hotels, and my wife was no exception. When we were younger (in our early 30s) we couldn't quite afford adjoining rooms at the big marriott but later in our 30s and 40s we could. And she did.