Exactly. My wife and I used the adjoining rooms scenario many times - there was a newer Best Western near our home - not a fleabag motel, but nowhere as costly as a big brand hotell. Besides, this isn't the time to worry about budgets. Cheaping out sends a negative signal to the wife. Most women I've known also like to spend the night in luxury hotels, and my wife was no exception. When we were younger (in our early 30s) we couldn't quite afford adjoining rooms at the big marriott but later in our 30s and 40s we could. And she did.