First Time Failure

[Slakka]

So I've had a mfm threesome once with an ex and a best friend. None of us had any performance issues. My opinion is that a lot of this is mental. If sex is mechanically setup and scheduled.... Then you're not going to get into it or maybe as in this case, the other party isn't.

Have a date with your wife wearing some hot stuff... Don't make it sound like a sure deal. That's bound to get some lust flowing on both sides. With me, we were talking flirtatiously about the idea for a long while and then we just sorta all dared each other and no one was backing down and it happened. My friend continued to steal chances to feel up my ex when I wasn't around etc which was hot when she told me after but full on sex never happened again

 

[Anonymousrob84]

So I've had a mfm threesome once with an ex and a best friend. None of us had any performance issues. My opinion is that a lot of this is mental. If sex is mechanically setup and scheduled.... Then you're not going to get into it or maybe as in this case, the other party isn't.

Have a date with your wife wearing some hot stuff... Don't make it sound like a sure deal. That's bound to get some lust flowing on both sides. With me, we were talking flirtatiously about the idea for a long while and then we just sorta all dared each other and no one was backing down and it happened. My friend continued to steal chances to feel up my ex when I wasn't around etc which was hot when she told me after but full on sex never happened again

This one wasn’t planned. It happened at like the last minute when we decided to meet.

 

[sjose27]

Where in Ohio are you located? I am near Cincinnati. Been in the lifestyle for a few years, so I know the whole scene.

 

[Anonymousrob84]

Where in Ohio are you located? I am near Cincinnati. Been in the lifestyle for a few years, so I know the whole scene.

Near Lima, but we will travel for sure

 

[sjose27]

Near Lima, but we will travel for sure

I will send you a pm

 

[Anonymousrachel]

So it’s been a few weeks since we’ve had our disastrous first time. However, I’ve been able to move on from that with many lessons learned!

This weekend I am hoping to meet up with the second guy I have been talking to for a while. We agreed it is no pressure sex. Just a “Hey, if you’re not busy, let’s meet up and fuck” kinda thing. However, as the date is getting closer I am soooo worried that it’s not going to happen. All of the emotions are going crazy right now! I have been craving a good fucking from someone else since the last time was so bad. I just don’t wanna be let down again if it doesn’t happen.

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[Anonymousrob84]

@Anonymousrachel is getting things all ready for our “hopefully” first successful meeting with a bull!

 

[Insatiable]

We as well have some very good experiences but also some disappointing ones.
For us, condoms are a must ! Yes, we know ; a lot of people her prefer bare but we don’t.

on our last gangbang, we invited 5 (!) single guys but only 2 showed up. One of them, despite Ms. Insatiable’s great oral skills and handy work had a lot of trouble becoming hard. Even gave him a SPAM viagra !

So, I had to step in to give her a memorable double penetration. And yes, the “hard” guy got in trouble as he removed his condom to finish in her.

Difficult to find a good combo…. Her appetite for another date had melted away…

Tomorrow we are leaving for Paris and we will go to a swingers club, the next best thing.

 

[Anonymousrob84]

We as well have some very good experiences but also some disappointing ones.
For us, condoms are a must ! Yes, we know ; a lot of people her prefer bare but we don’t.

on our last gangbang, we invited 5 (!) single guys but only 2 showed up. One of them, despite Ms. Insatiable’s great oral skills and handy work had a lot of trouble becoming hard. Even gave him a SPAM viagra !

So, I had to step in to give her a memorable double penetration. And yes, the “hard” guy got in trouble as he removed his condom to finish in her.

Difficult to find a good combo…. Her appetite for another date had melted away…

Tomorrow we are leaving for Paris and we will go to a swingers club, the next best thing.

We went to a swingers club once and it was so so bad. I think we just chose the wrong one. We have thought about trying another but haven’t made that leap yet

 

[Insatiable]

Never been in Ohio to a swingers club. We’ve been in Las Vegas to a meet and great, in New Orleans to a swingers club and in Providence to one.
All we can say is that the European clubs are better ! You should visit !

 

[Anonymousrob84]

Never been in Ohio to a swingers club. We’ve been in Las Vegas to a meet and great, in New Orleans to a swingers club and in Providence to one.
All we can say is that the European clubs are better ! You should visit !

Oh man I would love that. I’ve never been to Europe before.

 

[Insatiable]

@Anonymousrachel is getting things all ready for our “hopefully” first successful meeting with a bull!

Would love to know how this date was !

 

[Anonymousrob84]

Would love to know how this date was !

We will update you all tomorrow!

 

[private man 69]

Knowing that I have someone else in line for the next time, I am not letting it put me off as much. I am glad we made the first step and am hoping for better things next time around. This next guy seems to be much more experienced than the first one that we can tell from our in person conversations we had with the both of them. I just don’t want to get my hopes up again to have it fail again. I really can’t wait to have my first amazing experience in it all. I’m just kinda bummed that every time someone asks me about my first time, this is what I will remember.

Our first time was similar to yours thinking we would be nervous she even shaved her pussie completely bare for it to happen but having talked to five different men all saying they were experienced well it took all of them to give her what she wanted one at a time she was fucked so long and hard by them as I watched

 

[SexySeema]

Our first time was a complete failure! I met up with one of who I thought was going to be a favorite. After getting to the hotel and some small talk we moved to the bed. He took forever to get hard. Like…. FOR-EV-ER! I jerked him off, I sucked him, I let him jerk himself off while I made out with him, and still nothing. After FINALLY getting hard 45 mins later, he asked to fuck me bareback when we told him beforehand that the rules were he had to wear condoms. After that the sex lasted for a complete 5 minutes befor he asked to take a break.

Thankfully my husband was able to fulfill my needs tonight!

All I can say is next please!

That is not good. My husband was not very good at first. Now he is worse lol.

 

[IrishMaster]

Our first time was a complete failure! I met up with one of who I thought was going to be a favorite. After getting to the hotel and some small talk we moved to the bed. He took forever to get hard. Like…. FOR-EV-ER! I jerked him off, I sucked him, I let him jerk himself off while I made out with him, and still nothing. After FINALLY getting hard 45 mins later, he asked to fuck me bareback when we told him beforehand that the rules were he had to wear condoms. After that the sex lasted for a complete 5 minutes befor he asked to take a break.

Thankfully my husband was able to fulfill my needs tonight!

All I can say is next please!

that is funny I must say

 

[jw_kk]

When we first started this, I was amazed by the number of men that couldn’t get hard, stay hard, or perform in the presence of another guy. We also ran into guys that would cum pretty much instantly when KK put a condom on them - hair-trigger. Then there are the one-minute wonders.

Eventually we figured out ways to weed these types out, in our evolved screening and vetting process. KK calls that part “the cock inspection.” The basic theme, with lots of variations is to meet the candidate encounter partner in a public place. If he clicks with KK, we go for a ride in our vehicle. I drive, KK and the guy take up the back seat.

Depending on the circumstances, I drive to a pre-determined secluded location, or more rarely just drive, while KK and the candidate get to know one another a little more intimately. They get to see if there’s true sexual chemistry, she gets to closely examine the guy’s cock, and things flow from there. From time to time, things escalate to finger-banging, hand jobs, oral sex, and even fucking in the back set. More often, if the guy passes muster we give him the formal invite to the “fully monty” encounter.

This provides an out, at a little expense, avoiding disappointment for the real deal. It weeds out guys with performance anxiety, issues with limits, etc.

 

[69jd69]

This story reminds me of our first time with a close friend. We had played around some in the past, and I had fucked his wife a couple times (without my wife's knowledge...) but this was his first real opportunity to fuck my wife. She had been hesitant previously but finally, after a couple of shots of panty lube (tequila), she was ready. I had shared to him that she enjoyed getting it in the bottom which his wife would not allow. This got him very excited and, on the night in question, was clearly his main goal.

When we finally got to it, she blew him for a while then he went down on her. Before long, he had her on her stomach and was giving her tight little bottom a lot of oral love. She was definitely ready and willing and the time finally came to connect his probe and her socket. Then...Houston we have a problem. His pole was more like a rope than a rod. He kept trying. He'd bend her over and lick on her bottom. He tried stroking himself. He rubbed his limp noodle up and down between her cheeks. She was begging for it. No luck. Apparently he had stage fright or the excitement of finally getting the gift he had so long admired and desired was too much for him. Alas, we finally gave up.

Later that evening, it was time to take him back to his room on base. He asked if my wife could drive him over. I said "Absolutely. Take your time"

Shortly after they left I found her panties on the floor in our bathroom. She was gone about two hours. The whole time I laid in bed imagining what they were doing. My imagination was accurate. When he got her to the room, he slipped her shorts off and ate her. Then he finally climbed aboard and fucked her to her first orgasm. Before he came, he pulled out and asked "What's next?" She rolled over, stuck her bottom in the air, and said "Fuck my ass".

He applied a little lube and worked her with his finger going slowly and gently. She kept pushing back against the finger, signalling that she was (more than) ready. He finally managed to put his hard cock against her tight little bottom and began to push. He very slowly worked it in while she rocked back against him. She finally had enough with how slow he was going and said "hold still". Then she pushed back hard against his cock, sinking him in all the way to the balls. He finally got what he wanted...and what she needed...but didn't last long.

Afterward, they fucked one more time in the shower before she came home to me. I was wild with arousal and immediately went down on both her front and rear, then I fucked her three more times over the course of several hours.

In the end (and in her end...!), it all finally worked out and he got over his stage fright. Ultimately we had another couple of engagements together and he flew into town on several other occasions to fuck her while I was deployed. All's well that ends well.