For those organizing a bull for their wife / gf, how do you prepare beforehand?

Wetandwild40s

Male
From
UK
I'm interested in what little rituals you have, and what happens prior to the knock on the door and your bull arriving. Do you shower with her, sit and have a discussion about what's about to happen, joke around and flirt? Do you help her choose her lingerie, check her makeup, shave her pussy? Do you arrange a camera, lighting, music? Do you both have a glass of something or remain completely sober?