I would like to talk about all those things but she dont like to talk about it. Idont know why
Maybe it's all a bit too much in one go. Have you thought about what your ground rules are in those situations on your own?
make sure it is what you want!! Dont know if you can see our vid but that is my wife with our frieind. for real. its faboulous but be sure you can handle it please xxx
One key before taking this step is to talk about it outside the bedroom, not while keyed up for sex. If you both feel strongly that you want to when you are sitting at the kitchen table that is a positive sign.
Every woman should have lots of lovers. September 2022 Hello Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.
If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.
If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.
Good grief, the overbearing cuck-zealots on this site need to chill out. Not everyone is into that brand of hotwifing and it's clear this dude isn't. What you also fail to grasp is that women don't all want the same thing either and many would be turned off and upset to see the husband they "signed up for" turn into something different and other than what they wanted. I mean, if that's your thing and your wife is into that, cool, but why do you feel the need to push it on other people?
@Tomad12 - actual advice relevant to your situation: the whole jealousy / arousal at wife-sharing is just part of our innate biological programming. We're meant to want to protect a mate from rivals and attempt to "reclaim" them after sex with another male. Some say the shape of cock heads is even designed to remove rival semen.
I've had the same type of feelings you have and still do to some extent. My wife and I have not gone through with this fantasy yet but we've had the talk, its become a part of sex-play where she gets wet thinking about taking two cocks and a few months ago she asked me what the "parameters" were of seeing this through. I was totally caught off-guard because I'd sort of resigned myself to assuming this would only ever just be a fantasy with her and I did not know what to say. Now that the reality this could go further has hit, I am, like you, questioning whether I'm really prepared.
I still don't know if I'm totally ready but what I can say is, when I first got into this sort of wife-sharing porn, I'd sometimes feel weird about, especially if I thought about it in regards to my wife, after I came. I guess if you do it long enough though, you can become accustomed to it and now I don't seem to have negative feelings when I cum. Whether that extends to the real thing, only one way to find out...
Like you though, I think whether I enjoy the experience will depend on how it plays out. I want to have a crazy sexual experience with my wife and am cool with / hope she goes wild and fucks the shit out of another guy. However, I would definitely be bothered if that turned into a relationship / them texting. It is important to me to remain the primary man in my wife's life and the only way I'd be okay with it being otherwise, is if she allowed me to be with other women, which is not something she would ever consider. It seems like you have similar concerns.
If that's the case, I think doing something with a past partner could maybe be a recipe for disaster. Communication is definitely important but if she does not really like to talk about it, it could be that she is embarrassed or afraid to say something that might upset you. Maybe you should think about how you would like to see this play out / come up with some kind of a plan, like you finding a man online together or going out to meet someone, and present that to her. Then just let he know what you're hoping to get out of the experience / what things are important for you to feel good about it.
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This is all excellent to share and totally normal.
After the excitement and cum is out you need to feel extra safety and security, just like her. Try snuggling with her and holding each other close after you cum.
You’ve opened the Pandora’s box with her which is actually a real gift. You will find a way to enjoy it, and you’ll both be cumming harder than you can believe right now.
Feel free to chat with me on this.
Best wishes,
Bottom line is communication. The emotions involved when you see your wife enjoying another man, specially if he’s well endowed, my case I’m 6 inches he was nearly 9 and twice as thick, he took my ex to another world, the emotions that tore through my body was nothing I’ve ever experienced before. You gotta have an open mind and communicate. Be mentally prepared and you two have to remember it’s just sex.
You need to be absolutely confident & secure in your feelings for her and hers for you, outside of sharing her. Feeling unusual & even vulnerable is a usual initial response. Thats when the trust & confidence comes in.
Get INTO it with her. Luv her pleasure & enjoyment. Thats what its all about; watching her be a WOMAN!
Get INTO it with her. Luv her pleasure & enjoyment. Thats what its all about; watching her be a WOMAN!
being scared is part of the fun....does she like him more than me....she does not moan that loud for me....I love being nervous and scared 
R u worried she will like it to much
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Why you spam all the threads here in the forum with your videos and images not related to the authors topic at all?
I’m the same way. I’m totally in on her excitement and love the visual all this gives. Plus she really loves the feel of a different dick cumming in her. Some reason she says it makes her feel more like a woman. I guess because she can make other men cum…
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I think my gf likes the idea to fuck others but is scared to do so. If she want it she want it spontaniously. I dont think thats ever gonna happen if you dont look for it in my opinion.
Last night we had an conversation about sex and i was really horny. I said to her i would like to see a big dick insight her pussy. She said you would love that right? I said yes really. Then she asked me if i also liked it when she fucked someone without me being there. I said i think so, and said that i became really hard just her asking that question. I also asked her if that gets her horny and less awkard. She said i dont know, and yes i think so. We said to eachoter to talk about it an other time.
I hope this is a step in the right direction. Does anyone agree?
What is the next step for me?
Anyone also experienced this befor?
Hope to hear from you.
First summary
I think my gf likes the idea to fuck others but is scared to do so. If she want it she want it spontaniously. I dont think thats ever gonna happen if you dont look for it in my opinion.
Last night we had an conversation about sex and i was really horny. I said to her i would like to see a big dick insight her pussy. She said you would love that right? I said yes really. Then she asked me if i also liked it when she fucked someone without me being there. I said i think so, and said that i became really hard just her asking that question. I also asked her if that gets her horny and less awkard. She said i dont know, and yes i think so. We said to eachoter to talk about it an other time.
I hope this is a step in the right direction. Does anyone agree?
What is the next step for me?
Anyone also experienced this befor?
Hope to hear from you.
Hi, my wife 38 and I 50 are still at the very beginning of a potential Hotwifing development, but while I'm pretty sure I want it, her first concern after a dance experience (cf. my thread) was whether I was jealous. So, in our case, it is her who is insecure if I'm sufficiently open to seeing (or knowing) her flirt beyond what she's done so far. We're from Germany and the dance experience dates back to some 7 weeks ago. None of us have raised it ever since.
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