Ha ha, this has been a fun thread. I'm guessing that for most husbands who have actually "guided" another man's p**** into their wife it was the first time they'd ever touched another man's p****. It is symbolic in some ways, but guiding it in certainly seems to clarify that it is something both you and your wife want. Once your wife has a longer-term relationship in place with a special man, the two of them won't need for anyone to guide it in. As they caress, her legs will open and his penis will be in her where it belongs without anyone guiding it. The wife's non-verbal body language lets her loving husband know it is in and it is a higher level of lovemaking hubby may never experience with her. It never gets old, and as a husband I don't have to be there to see it and feel the arousal, heat, and desire that comes it.