The hotwife thing was never in my mind until 4 years ago. We were at home having some wine and we started discussing fantasies. In her drunken state she confessed that in the past she has flirted with some men at work and had often fantasized about a particular ex coworker pushing her into the bathroom at a bar she used to go to for happy hour and having his way with her. She told me she often thought about it when we had sex. Since then, I started exploring this idea (hotwife/cuck type stuff) and I became obsessed. A year later I confessed that the idea of her being with other men turns me on and we started role playing a bit in bed. That's where we have been stuck for 3 years. I have not been able to progress to the stage where she is willing to actually get physical with other men, even though she is constantly pointing out to me how she wants to fuck other men whenever she goes out or goes to the gym, or we're out somewhere together.
What am I doing wrong? any advise on how to give her that last push so we can make this fantasy reality? We're in the Philadelphia area, my wife is very attractive (tall, 34DDs, blonde hair, blue eyes, nice figure, 40 but looks a lot younger) and she gets lots of attention from men and gets hit often, but she has yet to get past some light flirting with other men.
What am I doing wrong? any advise on how to give her that last push so we can make this fantasy reality? We're in the Philadelphia area, my wife is very attractive (tall, 34DDs, blonde hair, blue eyes, nice figure, 40 but looks a lot younger) and she gets lots of attention from men and gets hit often, but she has yet to get past some light flirting with other men.