Here’s the thing, I KNOW he’ll be 💯 Hooked if I share her with him. What if she is too?!

[imherManwantHER]

I’ve been trying to convince my wife that I can handle the jealousy and insecurities that come with watching her fuck another guy in my presence, most likely as a threesome where both of us guys concentrate on her pleasure. She’s been receptive to the discussion and has come to enjoy the discussions as well as getting off on calling my attention to instances where guys hit on her more, lately.
Now, there’s this one guy friend of mine who just moved back here and is recently divorced. He’s a clean cut, fit, good looking black guy, a couple of years older than us. I introduced him to my wife and my sister about a year ago when we were out to dinner one night. He’s already been banging my sister 😝 and we hear all about it. She tells my wife about how big he is and how long he lasts, etc. My wife gets excited but says in private that she’s not interested in him because she believes my sister has strong feelings for him and visa versa. Tonight, he finally got around to sending my wife a friend request and a dm. She told me as soon as she saw, very excitedly said she thought she’d wait a few hours to accept, read, and maybe respond.
Things have gotten real all of a sudden and it’s super exciting!
My honest concern is that if she goes through with playing with him at all, she’ll go ahead and take him in all the way. When she does, I know he’s gonna be hooked on my girl and living in the area now, I’m concerned that an eventual desire to connect without me present might become hard to keep at bay.

 

[CuckmeCleveland]

I’ve been trying to convince my wife that I can handle the jealousy and insecurities that come with watching her fuck another guy in my presence, most likely as a threesome where both of us guys concentrate on her pleasure. She’s been receptive to the discussion and has come to enjoy the discussions as well as getting off on calling my attention to instances where guys hit on her more, lately.
Now, there’s this one guy friend of mine who just moved back here and is recently divorced. He’s a clean cut, fit, good looking black guy, a couple of years older than us. I introduced him to my wife and my sister about a year ago when we were out to dinner one night. He’s already been banging my sister 😝 and we hear all about it. She tells my wife about how big he is and how long he lasts, etc. My wife gets excited but says in private that she’s not interested in him because she believes my sister has strong feelings for him and visa versa. Tonight, he finally got around to sending my wife a friend request and a dm. She told me as soon as she saw, very excitedly said she thought she’d wait a few hours to accept, read, and maybe respond.
Things have gotten real all of a sudden and it’s super exciting!
My honest concern is that if she goes through with playing with him at all, she’ll go ahead and take him in all the way. When she does, I know he’s gonna be hooked on my girl and living in the area now, I’m concerned that an eventual desire to connect without me present might become hard to keep at bay.

Intriguing.

Excited but not interested makes me smile.

It’s a bit like saying ‘the idea excites me, and but for my SIL, I’d go for it.’ Not interested?

Yeah right! 😄

Then she gets very excited — as soon as she sees his request. She holds herself back from replying so as not to show how very much this excites her.

The most interesting thing here is your sister’s role. She’s got to know that her description of how good he is on the saddle is affecting your wife. But apparently, she keeps doing it anyway. And now that this discussion is ‘normalized,’ a text . . .

Have any hunches about what’s being shared about this between him and your sister? Is she telling him that whenever she discusses their lovemaking, your wife is super attentive, I can feel her heat from across the room, etc.?

You yourself find all this super exciting. Suddenly. Why?

Your sister has primed your wife for it.

Sis had reported back that this talk arouses your wife — every time it happens.

Your wife’s ‘not interested’ rationale as much as admits her attraction despite her excitement.

Something prompted him to reach out to your wife.

You see her very excited response and know that preliminaries are over and the game is on.

Imagine if YOU started apprising him of your wife’s response . . .

If your sister knows he is reading your wife snd reporting back to him [of course she foes], she’s in on it.

I think this can happen profoundly beautifully and remarkably easily.

Keep communication going. Stand by your wife and support her whatever she decides.

Take care and all the best!

 

[imherManwantHER]

Intriguing.

Excited but not interested makes me smile.

It’s a bit like saying ‘the idea excites me, and but for my SIL, I’d go for it.’ Not interested?

Yeah right! 😄

Then she gets very excited — as soon as she sees his request. She holds herself back from replying so as not to show how very much this excites her.

The most interesting thing here is your sister’s role. She’s got to know that her description of how good he is on the saddle is affecting your wife. But apparently, she keeps doing it anyway. And now that this discussion is ‘normalized,’ a text . . .

Have any hunches about what’s being shared about this between him and your sister? Is she telling him that whenever she discusses their lovemaking, your wife is super attentive, I can feel her heat from across the room, etc.?

You yourself find all this super exciting. Suddenly. Why?

Your sister has primed your wife for it.

Sis had reported back that this talk arouses your wife — every time it happens.

Your wife’s ‘not interested’ rationale as much as admits her attraction despite her excitement.

Something prompted him to reach out to your wife.

You see her very excited response and know that preliminaries are over and the game is on.

Imagine if YOU started apprising him of your wife’s response . . .

If your sister knows he is reading your wife snd reporting back to him [of course she foes], she’s in on it.

I think this can happen profoundly beautifully and remarkably easily.

Keep communication going. Stand by your wife and support her whatever she decides.

Take care and all the best!

Thank you for your insight and advice. I think your assessment of the dynamic is probably accurate. It’s exciting for sure, I think it’s something I want to happen.

 

[tdog7119]

I’ve been trying to convince my wife that I can handle the jealousy and insecurities that come with watching her fuck another guy in my presence, most likely as a threesome where both of us guys concentrate on her pleasure. She’s been receptive to the discussion and has come to enjoy the discussions as well as getting off on calling my attention to instances where guys hit on her more, lately.
Now, there’s this one guy friend of mine who just moved back here and is recently divorced. He’s a clean cut, fit, good looking black guy, a couple of years older than us. I introduced him to my wife and my sister about a year ago when we were out to dinner one night. He’s already been banging my sister 😝 and we hear all about it. She tells my wife about how big he is and how long he lasts, etc. My wife gets excited but says in private that she’s not interested in him because she believes my sister has strong feelings for him and visa versa. Tonight, he finally got around to sending my wife a friend request and a dm. She told me as soon as she saw, very excitedly said she thought she’d wait a few hours to accept, read, and maybe respond.
Things have gotten real all of a sudden and it’s super exciting!
My honest concern is that if she goes through with playing with him at all, she’ll go ahead and take him in all the way. When she does, I know he’s gonna be hooked on my girl and living in the area now, I’m concerned that an eventual desire to connect without me present might become hard to keep at bay.

What a perfect set up for this to occur. The build up and anticipation would be exhilarating and when this happens there will be some amazing sex that will be had by all. You do have to create understanding with your wife and when this goes down she will have to get him to understand the rules and adhere to them. If not it sounds like she would be cock struck by him and you would sidelined.
Please , Please even if you DM me keep me in the loop as thus transpires and don’t hold back on the visual presentations.

 

[Harvey]

I was excited when a guy with a reputation (big cock, great in bed) started showing interest in my wife. I loved the idea of him adding her to the list of all the wives he’d fucked. But I was also worried I’d lose her to him. Anyway, he took her out to lunch and fucked her afterwards. She loved his big cock and has given herself to him several times since. But we are still together. She just tells me that she needs a man like him sometimes, as I can’t give her everything she needs.

 

[Marco80]

I was excited when a guy with a reputation (big cock, great in bed) started showing interest in my wife. I loved the idea of him adding her to the list of all the wives he’d fucked. But I was also worried I’d lose her to him. Anyway, he took her out to lunch and fucked her afterwards. She loved his big cock and has given herself to him several times since. But we are still together. She just tells me that she needs a man like him sometimes, as I can’t give her everything she needs.

@Harney may we see ur wife....

 

[Harvey]

@Harney may we see ur wife....

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[Marco80]

she really deserves a big nice cock....

 

[tdog7119]

Harvey, your wife is so gorgeous. Such a great name. HARVEY. 😉
To pleasure her from time to time would be a dream come true.

 

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Fantastic that she's giving that awesome body to another guy and that they both pleasure one another. She comes back home to you.
That's just the way it should be...

 

[CuckmeCleveland]

Thank you for your insight and advice. I think your assessment of the dynamic is probably accurate. It’s exciting for sure, I think it’s something I want to happen.

Consider reaching out to him, to your sister, or both.

Become his coach. Share her favorite fantasies with him, her habits, turn offs and turn ons. Give him guidance after each interaction. That feedback gives him an enormous advantage.

The same ‘matter-of-fact’ way your sis discusses her escapades with him is the way to go with her. The next time she describes his talents . . . wait until she’s done, and affirm it in a relaxed, positive manner. Casual acceptance is the way.

We know he’s got his way! He sends [your wife] one text and she’s as jittery and excited as a high school girl on prom night!

If sis is telling you about the two of them, it’s almost certain she’ll tell him that a text from him keeps. Her glued to her phone till bedtime.

And if he asks sis, “how’d he seem with that?”

What if she replies, he said ‘that’s up to them . . . but I say, “good on him!” ‘

If he’s as good as sis says, can you really deny her that gift?

And if he ever asks, ‘are you really that good with this?’

‘How can I help?’

And keep posting. No one here knows this better than you. But one person’s insight sparks another’s. All the best.

 

[CuckmeCleveland]

I can handle the jealousy and insecurities that come with watching her fuck another guy in my presence

I wouldn’t even go there. It says that you’ve got jealousies and insecurities that need managed handling. She’ll wonder if you can all the more.

If she raises this, tell her that you’ll say ‘what I need from you right now is . . .’

That may be:
‘This changes nothing with us.’
‘Just hug me.’

Or something else. Study up on aftercare.

Another point related to my longer post: If she speaks to you privately on any of this — you say that you are so appreciative of her openness with things, you respect that she can do this. And in the very best ways, her sharing is having more impact than she’d guess.

And yes. You DO approve of the direction.