Why do you trib?
This is a question I get asked a lot, so I thought this might offer some insight.
I got into tribs about 20 years ago, chatting to a woman who sent me a pic of her boobs. I quipped that Iād be jerking off to that later. Her next comment stopped me dead in my tracks: I want to see that. I replied that I thought women hated dick pics. She responded that thereās a world of difference between hundreds of men sending her unsolicited dick pics and her seeing the effect she had on a guy, especially when he came. So she told me to send her two pics: one of my hard cock with her boobs in the backdrop and a similar shot after I came. She explained that women called it paying tribute. The penny dropped š
So I did as she asked. She told me how incredible she thought my trib was and how sheād gone to bed that night imagining me spraying my warm cum on her tits. It turned me on that she was so turned on and likewise.
Over the years, Iāve refined it and video makes it so much better. If youāve read the opening post on my thread youāll know I have rules and standards (oh the irony, a horny guy with his cock in his hand talking about standards š¤£). But I do. There are far too many creeps, stalkers and guys wanting to revenge porn their slut ex, and thatās a rabbit hole I wonāt knowingly go down.
Most people are looking for a one-off trophy or validation and thatās fine, but it gets better with members who keep coming back for more. It becomes more intimate and satisfying for both them and me, because as we learn how each otherās minds work, we can indulge each other more.
On the surface, tribbing seems like one step removed from jerking off to porn, but for me itās quite different. Members (be it men, women or couples) want me to show them how sexy she is and how much she turns me on. I also like to be watched, that turns me on too.
The bottom line is I'm demonstrating how sexy she is, as opposed to just words on a screen. Lots of members post pics knowing that guys are going to jerk off regardless of whether they ask them to (that's how porn has operated for years) but for me, it's the request. The desire to watch. That I am pleasing someone. For me tributes are an extension of being asked in person: I want to watch you jack off. Many lovers have asked that, they're curious and excited. Some have reciprocated, some have helped, some have filmed me. When someone wants to watch it gets me hot and I cum much harder.
In some cases, my tribs have opened up new avenues and friendships I hadn't previously considered, like being a bull for couples or being the catalyst to improve their sex life. If itās a positive thing, then itās all good.
Thatās it for now. On a short break for the festivities, so no privacy at the moment, but tribs will resume in the new year. If you want to know more, feel free to DM me.