Hey, i am socially awkward when it comes to introductions. So, I will just say I am Jules (you will never guess what that is short for). I am 23, a woman, and newly single after spending the last 4+ years in a serious relationship.
it’s been really hard dealing with that. My parents were super strict and never let me date so he was my first boyfriend and we were together for most of college.
before our relationship ended we both knew it wasn’t going well so we went to a couples counselor that told us we needed to “spice up” our intimacy/sex life a bit. I have never been into porn but liked literotica… he found sexual literature boring but liked porn… and somehow trying to find some common ground led us to a website that eventually led us to THIS website. my boyfriend (at the time) got super obsessed with this stuff which led to the idea of trying to bring someone in to our relationship.
i was more opposed to this then you could imagine. But we got into an argument about he was willing to try stuff to save the relationship and I wasn’t and me never putting effort in. So out of spite I said I would try it.
We found someone. I ended up loving the experience. He ended up hating the experience. And I won’t bore you with the rest of it.
but we ended up breaking up obviously. I have moved across the country for a fresh start really. It was honestly an impulse move but I’ve always wanted to live here to, it works.
and now I’m single, lonely, and stuck with masturbation… and since I keep thinking about this stuff I am making an account.
I don’t know what to expect but it’s exhilarating!
it’s been really hard dealing with that. My parents were super strict and never let me date so he was my first boyfriend and we were together for most of college.
before our relationship ended we both knew it wasn’t going well so we went to a couples counselor that told us we needed to “spice up” our intimacy/sex life a bit. I have never been into porn but liked literotica… he found sexual literature boring but liked porn… and somehow trying to find some common ground led us to a website that eventually led us to THIS website. my boyfriend (at the time) got super obsessed with this stuff which led to the idea of trying to bring someone in to our relationship.
i was more opposed to this then you could imagine. But we got into an argument about he was willing to try stuff to save the relationship and I wasn’t and me never putting effort in. So out of spite I said I would try it.
We found someone. I ended up loving the experience. He ended up hating the experience. And I won’t bore you with the rest of it.
but we ended up breaking up obviously. I have moved across the country for a fresh start really. It was honestly an impulse move but I’ve always wanted to live here to, it works.
and now I’m single, lonely, and stuck with masturbation… and since I keep thinking about this stuff I am making an account.
I don’t know what to expect but it’s exhilarating!