I think you should share what is happening with him. Include him and let him fulfill his fantasy and yours.
His Secret Fantasy
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Just in case her husband gets really turned on, she should tell him while being filled with her other man’s seed. Then as he is sucking on her pussy THAT is when she should ask if he can taste his seed
Sometimes the sizzle is better than the steak. Tread lightly as suggested by a few posters.
ok, i have a question; if he doesn't know you are cheating, how does he experience any satisfaction with his fantasy?
if cheating involves sex with someone, who is not your husband, what does he get out of it?
conversely, if you tell him, is it, still, cheating?
can you tell us the who, when & where?
I think it has to be about the sexual experience and not about feelings. Most of the time when people cheat they are unhappy or not satisfied which is way different then having the wife come home and tell about her sexual exploits. My wife has had a couple threesomes without me and that is a huge turn on for us, me hearing it and her telling it. We have been married for over twenty years and while we have had ups and downs it was never to do with sex. It is a conversation to be had an maybe one night tell him that you found his stuff and it turned you on a lot and ask if that is what he really wants? If he wants you to do it and then tell him everything or maybe pretend like its a big secret and you come home and write it down like a journal that he "accidentally" finds and reads and you guys just keep up the act like you don't know. All that is way different and much sexier I think
You have gotten some solid advice here Lauren. I would definitely take the route of having a conversation with him ,before you blurt out while you are clanging glasses on your anniversary , that you have been fucking other men . You don’t say who they are ? Do you both know the men ? Does he see them all the time or at times ? That would take on a life of its own in that case. I hope you heed the advice of those who have already “been there done that “ and take the conservative route. We men all talk a good game and then when its time to play some decide they don’t want to . They do a 180 and then things get ugly.
Love the background of the story tho … good luck and please keep us posted !!
Love the background of the story tho … good luck and please keep us posted !!
Very good comments on the subject here. One thing to explore and understand is the difference between fantasy and reality….does he, and u for that matter, really want this. Assuming u both do, understanding whether its a stag or cuckold role, that you both want for him. Stag is involved in a variety of ways and more of a ”partnership”. Cuckold is a very intensive role that can Be very submissive….and thrilling, exciting but emotionally exhaustive. Read up a little to see where he wants to go.
good luck on your journey as a couple
good luck on your journey as a couple
farmbitch
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hubby has a very small penis (3,5″ hard) and it does not satisfy me.
I have always controlled his life using his small penis as a weapon against him.
Many years ago I surprised him by masturbating his tiny dick.
then bought a very small german chastity (1,4″ length). hewear it at all time only allowed to take it of when he showering. I love to tease him, walking arround in underwear, showing pussi which always make his penis hard.
I have always controlled his life using his small penis as a weapon against him.
Many years ago I surprised him by masturbating his tiny dick.
then bought a very small german chastity (1,4″ length). hewear it at all time only allowed to take it of when he showering. I love to tease him, walking arround in underwear, showing pussi which always make his penis hard.
I hope this is a fantasy he wanted full filled.at e you should’ve brought it up before you started cheating. Hope it all works out for you both.
He is NOT living his fantasy! He is not being shared in the experience. You should feel guilty and tell him. Any level of deceit is not healthy. Make him a part of the experience. Have you discussed what he wants out of seeing you fuck another guy?
YES he is "living his fantasy". He wanted a cheating wife and now he has one. I've encouraged wives on here to cheat as long as they tell their husband ONCE that they are going to do it at some point and as long as he's told you that's what he wants. A moment of "fantasy" or whatever, a wife should go for it. Be careful what you wish for and what you encourage with your wife.
I was encouraged in moments of fantasy with my husband when we were dating but I wouldn't take the plunge. Eventually I did it and I've never stopped since. I cheated on him frequently and he eventually began to figure it out. If I got caught in some way I would just tell him some outrageous lie and act like it was nothing. Then I would change the story and tell him a "fantasy" story that was actually the truth. He never knew if I was telling the truth or some actual fantasy. I wasn't worried about getting caught and I always thought the lies were so much fun. He did too, once he realized just how much I was having sex with other guys.
My one word of caution for her is that I hope she's having sex with DIFFERENT guys over that six months and NOT THE SAME GUY. Same guy over six months is a danger to your marriage and I wouldn't blame her husband for being angry about that. Just spread your wings and enjoy sex with whatever other guys turn you on. Eventually he will find out, especially if you start leaving him small clues. By that time there's no stopping it and he will come to realize how much he enjoys it, because he has no other choice.
Mrs Hotwife
So, when is your anniversary? Have you been feeling hubby out about his fantasy? Do you engage in "cuck talk" during sex?
Sorry for all the questions. Answer what you feel comfortable answering if you can.
I know in my situation, I've given her the Hall Pass and encouraged her to respond to any advances a man she finds interesting might make towards her, I would feel a plethora of emotions if she dropped it all on me at once. Excitement, anger, lust, betrayal are just a few of those. I definitely think you should give him a chance to "catch up". Maybe ask him how he would feel if a man asked you out on a date and what you should do about it. Maybe a quiet time in bed when you are both naked so you can watch to see if his cock has anything to say about it.
Hoballoy
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mirella.hango
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The way this has gone down, with him either backtracking or truly unaware of having shared his fantasy, the OP’s plan sounds very risky. The reality is most guys are very much ill prepared for the reality of their wife being with other men. Sure it may sound good to some when they are excited and horny - but … I stand by everything I stated earlier. We haven’t heard back from the OP in a while. I hope things are well.
No. Not really. Lived here since the late 70's. Excluding cruises we have been to the Key's twice.
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