His Secret Fantasy

[keylife022]

No. Not really. Lived here since the late 70's. Excluding cruises we have been to the Key's twice.

Would you like to meat in the middle?

 

[MissMyWife]

The way this has gone down, with him either backtracking or truly unaware of having shared his fantasy, the OP’s plan sounds very risky. The reality is most guys are very much ill prepared for the reality of their wife being with other men. Sure it may sound good to some when they are excited and horny - but … I stand by everything I stated earlier. We haven’t heard back from the OP in a while. I hope things are well.

Goes off track after this…
@LaurenTries
I’ve just spent time reading your thread….
A lot of people have given their advice….
Have you told Hubby? If not what are you going to do?
Please give us a conclusion

 

[dickhurtz]

can you tell us how your cheating started? where, how often & with whom?

friend, co-worker, neighbor, ex-BF etc.

& have to told hubby yet?

 

[Loridan]

We enjoy mfm with a guy we know. It's really really sparked up our sex life. I would not be good with her doing this without me. It's a huge turn on for me and her when our friend joins us.

 

[Bobby75]

You put all this out there and let everyone comment. How about an update ??

 

[dickhurtz]

looks like the OP has abandoned this thread. she hasn't posted in almost two months.

bummer.

 

[LaurenTries]

It has been a little while and I have been taking things a little bit farther to try and ease my husband into the idea that I am fulfilling his fantasy. Since I have made this post I have continued to see other men but with the specific purpose of telling my husband about it afterwards. I have introduced dirty stories into the bedroom that he absolutely loves. I will tell him a “story” all about how I was a slut for someone else and it gets him so excited. I have been doing this for weeks where every time we have sex I tell him one of my dirty stories. We are getting closer and closer to the point that I am going to be honest with him and admit that the stories are real. Right now, he can’t get enough and wants me to keep the dirty talk going. He tells me during sex that he loves having a “slut wife”. It has been so exciting to do this and the excitement of having this secret is just absolutely wild.

 

[MissMyWife]

It has been a little while and I have been taking things a little bit farther to try and ease my husband into the idea that I am fulfilling his fantasy. Since I have made this post I have continued to see other men but with the specific purpose of telling my husband about it afterwards. I have introduced dirty stories into the bedroom that he absolutely loves. I will tell him a “story” all about how I was a slut for someone else and it gets him so excited. I have been doing this for weeks where every time we have sex I tell him one of my dirty stories. We are getting closer and closer to the point that I am going to be honest with him and admit that the stories are real. Right now, he can’t get enough and wants me to keep the dirty talk going. He tells me during sex that he loves having a “slut wife”. It has been so exciting to do this and the excitement of having this secret is just absolutely wild.

I’m envious of your hubby, sounds like you’re giving him the HotWife he’s always wanted
You are fukin Wild havin your cake and eating it too….😈
Talk about taking advantage and reaping the benefits 😜
How do you get away with it, without suspicion?

 

[bulldogg78]

For a few years now I know that my husband has had a secret fantasy about the “cheating wife”. I have found porn on his computer and sites where he reads stories about it. Last year, we were at a wedding and he was very drunk and when we were having sex he dirty talked directly about how hot it would be if I was cheating on him. He doesn’t remember that night much but the fact that he said it out loud made me believe it is a real fantasy and it’s what he wants.

So I would like to know opinions of whether or not I am doing something good or bad right now. For the last 6 months I have been cheating on him. He doesn’t know that I am. He is secretly living his fantasy and the stories he reads and porn he watches is happening in real life. I sometimes feel guilty like I am doing something wrong but other times I get very excited about it all.

I think I am giving him what he wants and I will eventually tell him about it. I am nervous about finally telling him, but so excited to to reveal that I have been giving him his biggest fantasy.

You should start by telling him you had a wet dream that you were doing another guy that it felt so real and that he was watching and excited about it see what he tells you and go from there I'm sure he will love it

 

[Johnfun]

For a few years now I know that my husband has had a secret fantasy about the “cheating wife”. I have found porn on his computer and sites where he reads stories about it. Last year, we were at a wedding and he was very drunk and when we were having sex he dirty talked directly about how hot it would be if I was cheating on him. He doesn’t remember that night much but the fact that he said it out loud made me believe it is a real fantasy and it’s what he wants.

So I would like to know opinions of whether or not I am doing something good or bad right now. For the last 6 months I have been cheating on him. He doesn’t know that I am. He is secretly living his fantasy and the stories he reads and porn he watches is happening in real life. I sometimes feel guilty like I am doing something wrong but other times I get very excited about it all.

I think I am giving him what he wants and I will eventually tell him about it. I am nervous about finally telling him, but so excited to to reveal that I have been giving him his biggest fantasy.

I will help you with rhat

 

[dickhurtz]

Dear lord, please keep updating with details as it nears. When is your anniversary?

You should absolutely start recording your encounters with these men and build up a library of videos and pictures of you performing and afterward. Speaking from someone who'd love to be in your husband's shoes, this would blow his mind and nothing could be a better gift (other than the act itself). You could even show your first video to him when revealing everything on your anniversary. Tell him you've been cheating on him like you usually do, so he thinks it's the same song and dance, then you can question him on whether or not he really wants you to. "Do you want to see proof?" Then pull out your phone or computer and watch a video with him. Cue the start of a new beginning in your marriage

You could even share some new videos with him while he's at work or on a trip just to drive him crazy.

Also, I (and likely everyone here) would love to hear the backstory of your cheating! Who was the first guy, how did you make it happen, how did you truly feel afterward? How many men do you see, how do you go about cheating? New guys every time?

yes, we need details, please.

 

[Wifehot68]

For a few years now I know that my husband has had a secret fantasy about the “cheating wife”. I have found porn on his computer and sites where he reads stories about it. Last year, we were at a wedding and he was very drunk and when we were having sex he dirty talked directly about how hot it would be if I was cheating on him. He doesn’t remember that night much but the fact that he said it out loud made me believe it is a real fantasy and it’s what he wants.

So I would like to know opinions of whether or not I am doing something good or bad right now. For the last 6 months I have been cheating on him. He doesn’t know that I am. He is secretly living his fantasy and the stories he reads and porn he watches is happening in real life. I sometimes feel guilty like I am doing something wrong but other times I get very excited about it all.

I think I am giving him what he wants and I will eventually tell him about it. I am nervous about finally telling him, but so excited to to reveal that I have been giving him his biggest fantasy.

I have few comments on what you wrote , nothing to judge , just what I understood from what you wrote..

your hubby have the fantasy of his wife cheating, however, that was not expressed to you except when he was drunk…

you didn’t discuss that with him, and it seems things went where you now having sex behind his back …and help me understand this better..

how do you think he is living his fantasy if he doesn’t know that it is happening at his home ?!

You also said you are giving him what he wants? Maybe thats what he wants indeed as he expressed when he was drunk, but it is in my opinion if he knew about it than going behind his back now for few months…I might be wrong , thats called cheating your spouse and doing something that he didn’t knew was happening ..

and finally you mentioned that you are so excited that you have been giving him his biggest fantasy?!! I think maybe it is a good idea to come clean first with yourself and then with your husband ( are you really doing it for him or just doing it for yourself , maybe you wanted to try it and ended up liking it maybe ) I think that will be different

if you husband is behind you, you will be lucky…some men are not that understanding … I think most men would be understanding especially if they have this fantasy, but not all men…

please come clean with yourself and your husband…

Best of luck

 

[Sgt Ray]

Ahhh... what does she know? Always gotta be someone raining on the parade.
Forget her.
This is what ur husband wants! Ur not taking advantage of him, ur doing what his fantasy is!

And, when you tell and/or show him what a red hot Hotwife HE'S created, he's going to love it and you.

Just try and make sure if u have pix or a vid to show him, ur bull has a really good size cock.
Enjoy yourself! Give him exactly what he wanted

 

[Oum903]

I really think you should take pictures and record every single encounter you have with other men. When you finally tell your husband there will be no hotter gift then actually showing him and watching him drool over the sight of his wife being used. I’m sure you could share these moments and jack him off while he watches it. I can’t imagine how incredible of a gift it would be if you sent him pictures and videos of you cheating on him while he’s away at work or somewhere else. Sooooo much room to make this incredibly hot. I cannot wait to hear more from you!!! Really hope you can follow up.

 

[BeauKnerr]

The best way to confess your naughty misdeeds would be coming home after a rendezvous, sitting on his face with your cum -filled pussy and feeding him the residuals of your licentious union. He’ll know exactly what you’ve done and will be so intoxicated by cleaning up your dirty cunt that he will be thanking you for your infidelity and begging you to continue.

 

[JMNBABE]

For a few years now I know that my husband has had a secret fantasy about the “cheating wife”. I have found porn on his computer and sites where he reads stories about it. Last year, we were at a wedding and he was very drunk and when we were having sex he dirty talked directly about how hot it would be if I was cheating on him. He doesn’t remember that night much but the fact that he said it out loud made me believe it is a real fantasy and it’s what he wants.

So I would like to know opinions of whether or not I am doing something good or bad right now. For the last 6 months I have been cheating on him. He doesn’t know that I am. He is secretly living his fantasy and the stories he reads and porn he watches is happening in real life. I sometimes feel guilty like I am doing something wrong but other times I get very excited about it all.

I think I am giving him what he wants and I will eventually tell him about it. I am nervous about finally telling him, but so excited to to reveal that I have been giving him his biggest fantasy.

The longest I hid my cheating from my bhusband was 2 years with my Boss/Lover. He suspected, but I never fully admitted it to him. I ende dup telling him after a whirlwind unplanned trip to Cancun with my Boss/Lover to celebrate our decision to become full time any time Lovers (versus the 'just when we traveled for business' arrangement we had) prtly because I would need to be more accessible when I was not traveling, but MOSTLY because there was a VERY good chance I had come back from Cancun PREGNANT!!

J (the wife)

 

[Teddy Long]

Is there any updates on this? It’s a great story but have you told him yet?

 

[Hot0kcwife]

I would suggest having a conversation with him and say you are aware of his fantasy of you sleeping with another man. Tell him that you have been thinking about it since he shared it with you at the wedding. Let him know you are open to the idea but want to understand his expectations better and make sure he knows that your relationship with him comes first. Depending on how he responds you may have an open window to proceed.

I would be a little concerned about sharing the affair as he could react in a variety of positive or negative ways. As a husband of a hotwife, I can honestly say that emotions and feelings can run high when first getting into the lifestyle. The first time my wife had a gentleman in her sights, it caused more jealousy than I was expecting to feel. However, because we communicated throughout, we were able to work through my concerns and the pangs of jealousy became hot and sexy vs. overwhelming for me. We walked step by step together in the beginning and learned to make it work. It was very important that I felt like my wife’s number one priority when we first began. I am not sure how I would have reacted if I found out she had cheated behind my back when she had permission to fuck other guys with my knowledge. Now, I would enjoy hearing that she was fucking other guys long before I knew. (Which I fully believe has happened)

I like this the best of all .. Just because he wants it doesn't mean you shouldn't take great care when telling him about it you need to start dropping hints about it like watch porn with him with that being the main point something to gage his true feeling for it ..But I guess the real question is are you cheating because you want out of the relationship between you and him and are you in love with this other guy? These things can mean a whole new thing other than giving him what you thought he wanted on a drunken night just say from another woman's point of view. .

 

[Avery99us]

It has been a little while and I have been taking things a little bit farther to try and ease my husband into the idea that I am fulfilling his fantasy. Since I have made this post I have continued to see other men but with the specific purpose of telling my husband about it afterwards. I have introduced dirty stories into the bedroom that he absolutely loves. I will tell him a “story” all about how I was a slut for someone else and it gets him so excited. I have been doing this for weeks where every time we have sex I tell him one of my dirty stories. We are getting closer and closer to the point that I am going to be honest with him and admit that the stories are real. Right now, he can’t get enough and wants me to keep the dirty talk going. He tells me during sex that he loves having a “slut wife”. It has been so exciting to do this and the excitement of having this secret is just absolutely wild.

I really hope for the best for you and your husband.

 

[NorCalMan]

After being separated for several months, my wife and I got back together. She would tell me bits and pieces of hook ups she had and I would beg to hear more. It turned me on so much and she could definitely tell by how excited I would get. She had one particular guy that she said gave her the best sex she has ever had in her life. I would ask for all the details but she would only go so far ... a form of tease and denial for me. She came to realize quickly that I was onboard with her having sex with other men.