Hotwife wants to be romanced by her bull. Need advise!

[Hotw74]

So my wife has informed me very recently that she is craving to be romanced by her bull. She thinks that adding some romance will make the sex even better than it is now. Thus far they have only met 4 times and those times were earth shattering experiences. Unfortunately for her and maybe fortunately for my nerves he lives 6 hours away by car. So they only see each other every few months. We always make the trip to see him as she has asked him to visit us a few times and he has yet to take us up on that offer. I texted him the other day and asked if he was at all interested in seeing her more often and also if he would make the travel to see us here. He said he would be open to that and that he would like to see her more often. He has told her in the past that he's not "Wired" the way men in relationships are and that he really enjoys his independence...... I know that he is totally into her and has admitted to me numerous times that she is the best looking woman he's ever had and that he really enjoys the time he spends with her. He also says that her independence and the fact that she rarely communicates with him is also a big turn on for him. When he is with her he literally can't take his eyes off of her..
My question is : Should I be concerned about her wanting romance instead of just sex? Has anyone ever had a bull show very little interest at having a relationship than changing his mind and pursing it? Thanks

 

[DrkCocoNCream]

Let him romance her and then plow her pussy good

 

[GentleBullUA]

So my wife has informed me very recently that she is craving to be romanced by her bull. She thinks that adding some romance will make the sex even better than it is now. Thus far they have only met 4 times and those times were earth shattering experiences. Unfortunately for her and maybe fortunately for my nerves he lives 6 hours away by car. So they only see each other every few months. We always make the trip to see him as she has asked him to visit us a few times and he has yet to take us up on that offer. I texted him the other day and asked if he was at all interested in seeing her more often and also if he would make the travel to see us here. He said he would be open to that and that he would like to see her more often. He has told her in the past that he's not "Wired" the way men in relationships are and that he really enjoys his independence...... I know that he is totally into her and has admitted to me numerous times that she is the best looking woman he's ever had and that he really enjoys the time he spends with her. He also says that her independence and the fact that she rarely communicates with him is also a big turn on for him. When he is with her he literally can't take his eyes off of her..
My question is : Should I be concerned about her wanting romance instead of just sex? Has anyone ever had a bull show very little interest at having a relationship than changing his mind and pursing it? Thanks

Depends on what your concern is? Losing her completely? Her becoming just your roommate and wife only on paper, and watching her falling in love with a new boyfrined, saying love words, cooking and making presents to each other? Or something else?

Anyway - this is a matter of understanding yourself first. Wishes, desires, fears. And then a matter of trust, keeping promises and talking to each other. Talk to her, tell her what you don't want and what would hurt you. Set up the limits and follow them.


Crazy P.S: Let her go and stay at bull's place (or some hotel/vacation) for 3-5 days. So that she always makes a video call to you and let you watch when they are fucking. But everything else to be shared only when she returns

 

[atantonov]

So my wife has informed me very recently that she is craving to be romanced by her bull. She thinks that adding some romance will make the sex even better than it is now. Thus far they have only met 4 times and those times were earth shattering experiences. Unfortunately for her and maybe fortunately for my nerves he lives 6 hours away by car. So they only see each other every few months. We always make the trip to see him as she has asked him to visit us a few times and he has yet to take us up on that offer. I texted him the other day and asked if he was at all interested in seeing her more often and also if he would make the travel to see us here. He said he would be open to that and that he would like to see her more often. He has told her in the past that he's not "Wired" the way men in relationships are and that he really enjoys his independence...... I know that he is totally into her and has admitted to me numerous times that she is the best looking woman he's ever had and that he really enjoys the time he spends with her. He also says that her independence and the fact that she rarely communicates with him is also a big turn on for him. When he is with her he literally can't take his eyes off of her..
My question is : Should I be concerned about her wanting romance instead of just sex? Has anyone ever had a bull show very little interest at having a relationship than changing his mind and pursing it? Thanks

I think he is married or lives with a woman.....

 

[atantonov]

So my wife has informed me very recently that she is craving to be romanced by her bull. She thinks that adding some romance will make the sex even better than it is now. Thus far they have only met 4 times and those times were earth shattering experiences. Unfortunately for her and maybe fortunately for my nerves he lives 6 hours away by car. So they only see each other every few months. We always make the trip to see him as she has asked him to visit us a few times and he has yet to take us up on that offer. I texted him the other day and asked if he was at all interested in seeing her more often and also if he would make the travel to see us here. He said he would be open to that and that he would like to see her more often. He has told her in the past that he's not "Wired" the way men in relationships are and that he really enjoys his independence...... I know that he is totally into her and has admitted to me numerous times that she is the best looking woman he's ever had and that he really enjoys the time he spends with her. He also says that her independence and the fact that she rarely communicates with him is also a big turn on for him. When he is with her he literally can't take his eyes off of her..
My question is : Should I be concerned about her wanting romance instead of just sex? Has anyone ever had a bull show very little interest at having a relationship than changing his mind and pursing it? Thanks

Yes i do think you should be concerned that she wants to be romanced... But then again you chouse to be a cuckold and that is how things are going to be for you from now on, more and more humiliating! First she gets fucked by a stranger and the stranger wakes up a sexual wild beast inside of her and she wants more and more! You cant do nothing to stop her. Next thing she will bring him home and fuck him in your marital bed. Then she will demand that you seat in the corner in a chair and watch her and her lover fuck.... Then she will ask you to clean up her pussy after sex, next to clean up her lover to... next she will want you to fluff her lover and make him hard so he could fuck her that 6th or 7th time....
It will just keep getting worst and worst from now on pal! Welcome to the cuckold life style! Get ready for it!

 

[Bull4Oldrwives]

All my relationships involve romance a it adds to the excitement of the relationship for the wife. However, it needs to be understood that the romance is exciting because it is in the context of the wife/boyfriend relationship. If she is going to have LTRs you need to accept that romance is and should be a part of the relationship. You should do everything you can to encourage this. By fully allowing her to revel in the sexual excitement and romance that is unique to the wife/lover relationship you validate her feelings of love and gratitude towards a husband who allows her to have this unique special thing in her life. She is fortunate to have two men in her life dedicated to her romance and pleasure.

 

[Rider400]

My wife has had two relationships. She was in love both times. Both times, she broke off. The guys didn't. Reason, one guys asked her to divorce me and marry him. The other guy started controlling relationship. My wife enjoy freedom, no one can cage her. If your wife wants a different lifestyle, not being a hot wife, then you should be concerned, otherwise let her enjoy.

 

[Sgt Ray]

There is an ENORMOUS difference between sex & romance. Any "Bull" worth a shit knows that. He's meant to fuck her, to use her as a woman sometimes needs to be used by an in charge & control bull. The LAST thing he wants is a romantic relationship.
He appears to allude to that in what you wrote he said. He has to tell her that. If not, ur in deep shit my man. My feeling is he isn't going to give up being a bull to several woman for ur wife.
You need to talk to him directly and hopefully he'll set ur wife straight.
One way is for him to be busy and unavailable when she tries to see him.

 

[Sgt Ray]

And as info, most bulls will tell the woman she's beautiful, as he fucks her deep or takes her ass or uses her mouth. Just SOP for them...

 

[hsvcpl4bbc]

Listen guy this is why most of our wives won’t even consider or entertain this fantasy or
lifestyle. Who wanta to be controlled sexually by a man who is insisting that you emasculate him for his sexual p and then you must fuck who he wants to watch yo fuck, but not just fucking. He is expecting no demanding some carnal response from you sexually that he will be able to internalize and justify his fetish by the lev of which you are degradEd by another man sexually and physicall. Don’t you dare consider this anything other than for him and if you do then he will immediately become jealous and sensitive and resentful of you for do the things he “promised “ you he wanted you to do for you since he was unable to please you anymore. Guys it’s either you are willing to accept the consequences of giving your wife to a better superior man sexually and not bitch about the results or stop jerking off to this porn and telling her that you want to do this for her

 

[Sgt Ray]

Listen guy this is why most of our wives won’t even consider or entertain this fantasy or
lifestyle. Who wanta to be controlled sexually by a man who is insisting that you emasculate him for his sexual p and then you must fuck who he wants to watch yo fuck, but not just fucking. He is expecting no demanding some carnal response from you sexually that he will be able to internalize and justify his fetish by the lev of which you are degradEd by another man sexually and physicall. Don’t you dare consider this anything other than for him and if you do then he will immediately become jealous and sensitive and resentful of you for do the things he “promised “ you he wanted you to do for you since he was unable to please you anymore. Guys it’s either you are willing to accept the consequences of giving your wife to a better superior man sexually and not bitch about the results or stop jerking off to this porn and telling her that you want to do this for her

Ok, not sure where to start. Is english your second language?
Anyway, regarding a Bull. A good, honest bull will never degrade or demean a lady, unless thats what SHE wants. He will simply give her a great fucking, concentrating on HER & HER orgasms. After all, why would she return if he didn't do so?

Second, you're really off the mark with your bullshit about jealousy, resentment & consequences. This has to be discussed throughly and agreed to BEFORE you pursue a bull to fuck the lady.
Once again, the bull has nothing to be gained by causing marital issues.

I'm not suggesting there are not assholes out there who act/think they're a bull. So you need to do your homework and make sure he's a gentleman, is very clean and organized and a referral from previous ladies woukd be helpful.

All 3 of you sit down and have a drink in a nice public place. You & her get a feel for him. Thats the best way to know if the chemistry is good and he's what you're looking for. She NEVER gets pressured into anything. In fact, she gets to decided what and whi SHE wants to do.

Your note is pathetically misinformed, perhaps due to a bad experience that could have been avoided.
The Lady does only what she wants to do!!!

 

[hsvcpl4bbc]

Ok, not sure where to start. Is english your second language?
Anyway, regarding a Bull. A good, honest bull will never degrade or demean a lady, unless thats what SHE wants. He will simply give her a great fucking, concentrating on HER & HER orgasms. After all, why would she return if he didn't do so?

Second, you're really off the mark with your bullshit about jealousy, resentment & consequences. This has to be discussed throughly and agreed to BEFORE you pursue a bull to fuck the lady.
Once again, the bull has nothing to be gained by causing marital issues.

I'm not suggesting there are not assholes out there who act/think they're a bull. So you need to do your homework and make sure he's a gentleman, is very clean and organized and a referral from previous ladies woukd be helpful.

All 3 of you sit down and have a drink in a nice public place. You & her get a feel for him. Thats the best way to know if the chemistry is good and he's what you're looking for. She NEVER gets pressured into anything. In fact, she gets to decided what and whi SHE wants to do.

Your note is pathetically misinformed, perhaps due to a bad experience that could have been avoided.
The Lady does only what she wants to do!!!

You obviously missed the point of what I was saying. i was saying that the whole premise of this guy’s question about should he worried about his wife wanting romance with her bull. My point is that he has no right or authority to even consider the matter. He isn’t concerned about his wife being rag dolled and being “owned” by another man but he is concerned about her wanting to be humaniz and not fucked like an animal or for someone else’s pleasure. He needs to shut up accept that he is not in charge or even allowed to be concerned. He more than likely drove his wife crazy asking her to do this for years begging her and then not being sexual with her lIke he is supposed to be because he pouted about not being able to be a cuckold and his wife not wanting to fuck other men. Eventually she gave up and gave him what he wanted and for her to do this it probably required her to really think about it and she probably had to change her mind on what she thought marriage was about and what a man is supposed to be like and she finally decided to accept it and go for it and she does it for him and how he wants it to be. Then she causally told him that she would love for the man fucking her to be a little more human when he is ramm her her pussy ass husband is worried that she wants that. And I’m so sorry professor proofread that I’m not up to your standards of educational integrity and excellence that you are so much accustomed to on this intellectual breeding ground of a forum

 

[Sgt Ray]

You needn't be sorry or apologize for your short commings. They are what they are.

In fact he has both the right and autority to
consider anything he pleases. Even you have that right
Most of us mortals do some things that we later regret or try to change. These two would have benefited a great deal by better talking through and agreeing to this and a meeting of all three would have helped to determine if everyone was on the same page.
This guy was just simply ill-prepared emotionally for it. The wife did nothing wrong. She just took a good fucking and enjoyed the guy. Hubby should have (and possibly did) know what was cumming.
When you push her into someone elses bed, you can't be surprised at the out come.

 

[MarcandLilly]

Yes i do think you should be concerned that she wants to be romanced... But then again you chouse to be a cuckold and that is how things are going to be for you from now on, more and more humiliating! First she gets fucked by a stranger and the stranger wakes up a sexual wild beast inside of her and she wants more and more! You cant do nothing to stop her. Next thing she will bring him home and fuck him in your marital bed. Then she will demand that you seat in the corner in a chair and watch her and her lover fuck.... Then she will ask you to clean up her pussy after sex, next to clean up her lover to... next she will want you to fluff her lover and make him hard so he could fuck her that 6th or 7th time....
It will just keep getting worst and worst from now on pal! Welcome to the cuckold life style! Get ready for it!

It's all part of this lifestyle. Everyone goes through this so lots of people can help you through this process. Enjoy!

 

[Sgt Ray]

It's all part of this lifestyle. Everyone goes through this so lots of people can help you through this process. Enjoy!

What he says is ABSOLUTLY right! If ur a cuck, you'll love it and think ur in heaven.
If ur not a true cuck....
You're fucked!

 

[MarcandLilly]

What he says is ABSOLUTLY right! If ur a cuck, you'll love it and think ur in heaven.
If ur not a true cuck....
You're fucked!

Succinctly and correctly stated.