But sometimes, other people's situations aren't exactly like yours.
A guy who recognizes he has a small boring dick and puts it in a cage for the benefit of his partner and himself is in fact proving that he's not defined by his penis. The cock cage is a wonderful way to put away a small dick that is not wanted. A couple can have a very satisfying sex life as they completely ignore the small caged penis.
There are women who would disagree that their caged men are "gimps".
Some of them are even business owners and well respected guys...... shocked?