How deep are you?

Believe it or not there really is a case of too big, it is really uncomfortable having your cervix pounded by an extremely long cock. I can comfortably take about 8" but as long as guy starts nice a slow and gentle then I can take all of a 9". Anything over 9" is just a waste probably for most women, not just me. I have no problem having sex with guys that are bigger, as long as they realise that once they get deep enough to hit my cervix not to thrust up against it!

My perfect male appendage is about 8" and as thick as possible.
 
I only have 8 inches (genuine 8) to use but all the same that can hit the cervix in some women if I don't take my time early on in our play.
One of my past encounters used to say it was hitting her ovaries and she'd give a few little yelps and I'd have to slow down until they were moved out of the way as she said. But she loved it anyway no matter what.
 
I'm a little larger than average, but not by much. When I was younger I used to play a lot. trying to tag everything that moved. I can tell you that most women can handle average no problem. some women average will bottom out, and be uncomfortable. some women can cum from average, but they really are made for something a little bigger.

the whole concept of women love big dicks is something men made up. there are maybe 5% of the population that would prefer more than 6, but the whole thing of 12" and 10" is ridiculous. most women would actually run form 8". I dated a girl that broke up with a guy because his dick was too big.

now as far as how deep they are this can change a little. if they are very aroused they can go a little deeper than normal. also it changes if they have had kids. with practice they can take quite a bit. A girl I dated years ago had issues with my dick at first. she was very tight. would bottom out all the time, and she would get sore easy. we talked about trying to change it by the use of toys and "training" for a lack of a better term. over the course of about 6 months she could handle me no problem, and was able to go to about 7 maybe and not be too uncomfortable. the biggest thing they can change is the girth they can take.

I knew a girl once again years ago that I was able to convince to try fisting after I saw she could handle 4 of my fingers before she got uncomfortable. after a month of training I was able to get my fist in. a month after that she could cum from being fisted. but if you dont use it you lose it. as soon as they stop practicing as they say, they will snap back to normal.
 
My late wife didn't like big dicks, should say long dicks, she said it bottomed out and hurt. Here and elsewhere can be read about the love of big cock. I came across this video and wondered how deep women actually are, how long a dick can be accommodated comfortably and enjoyably.

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you can tell right after about the 7" mark she had to be determined to get the rest in.
 
I'm a little larger than average, but not by much. When I was younger I used to play a lot. trying to tag everything that moved. I can tell you that most women can handle average no problem. some women average will bottom out, and be uncomfortable. some women can cum from average, but they really are made for something a little bigger.

the whole concept of women love big dicks is something men made up. there are maybe 5% of the population that would prefer more than 6, but the whole thing of 12" and 10" is ridiculous. most women would actually run form 8". I dated a girl that broke up with a guy because his dick was too big.

now as far as how deep they are this can change a little. if they are very aroused they can go a little deeper than normal. also it changes if they have had kids. with practice they can take quite a bit. A girl I dated years ago had issues with my dick at first. she was very tight. would bottom out all the time, and she would get sore easy. we talked about trying to change it by the use of toys and "training" for a lack of a better term. over the course of about 6 months she could handle me no problem, and was able to go to about 7 maybe and not be too uncomfortable. the biggest thing they can change is the girth they can take.

I knew a girl once again years ago that I was able to convince to try fisting after I saw she could handle 4 of my fingers before she got uncomfortable. after a month of training I was able to get my fist in. a month after that she could cum from being fisted. but if you dont use it you lose it. as soon as they stop practicing as they say, they will snap back to normal.
I'm sorry to disagree but this is so way off the mark. If a woman finds sex painful because the guy is bottoming out, it's because he's hitting her cervix - however, a woman can take a cock much longer than the depth of her vaginal canal. There are the anterior and posterior fornices - basically bags of very flexible tissue above and below the cervix. This was explained to me by an MD on this site in one of his posts.
So yes actually most (or at the very least, many) women can take a cock way bigger than 6" or even 8" if it is entering one of these fornices.
Why do you think there are so many woman on this site who say they enjoy bigger cocks? Do you really think they are all making that up? How about porn where girls are regularly seen taking much bigger than average cocks? They may not understand the biology of how they can take big dicks - I didn't till it was explained to me - they just know that they can and have done so.

So basically saying that women don't like big cocks and that it's a myth made by men that they do is I'm afraid BS. I'm sure lots and lots of women HAVE been put off taking a larger cock by an inconsiderate or arrogant guy just shoving his cock straight up her and painfully hitting her cervix.
But getting a women properly aroused and wet first and her pussy properly relaxed and of using some actual skill on the part of the guy and it isn't difficult for the cock to enter one of these bags of flexible tissue.
So yes - women saying they've taken 10" or more isn't BS, it's very possible (maybe not for every woman but certainly for many with practise) - however finding guys that big and who actually know how to use what they've got, is sadly much much rarer!
 
I'm sorry to disagree but this is so way off the mark. If a woman finds sex painful because the guy is bottoming out, it's because he's hitting her cervix - however, a woman can take a cock much longer than the depth of her vaginal canal. There are the anterior and posterior fornices - basically bags of very flexible tissue above and below the cervix. This was explained to me by an MD on this site in one of his posts.
So yes actually most (or at the very least, many) women can take a cock way bigger than 6" or even 8" if it is entering one of these fornices.
Why do you think there are so many woman on this site who say they enjoy bigger cocks? Do you really think they are all making that up? How about porn where girls are regularly seen taking much bigger than average cocks? They may not understand the biology of how they can take big dicks - I didn't till it was explained to me - they just know that they can and have done so.

So basically saying that women don't like big cocks and that it's a myth made by men that they do is I'm afraid BS. I'm sure lots and lots of women HAVE been put off taking a larger cock by an inconsiderate or arrogant guy just shoving his cock straight up her and painfully hitting her cervix.
But getting a women properly aroused and wet first and her pussy properly relaxed and of using some actual skill on the part of the guy and it isn't difficult for the cock to enter one of these bags of flexible tissue.
So yes - women saying they've taken 10" or more isn't BS, it's very possible (maybe not for every woman but certainly for many with practise) - however finding guys that big and who actually know how to use what they've got, is sadly much much rarer!
"Why do you think there are so many woman on this site who say they enjoy bigger cocks?" because the vast majority of women on this site are men pretending to be women.

you overlook one important thing, that this site is not the end all be all. there have been countless scientific studies conducted on penis length and what women find pleasurable and it does not coincide with the myth that women like big dicks. men are insecure about their dick size, but around 85% of women could really care less about it.

I also never said that there are not women that can't take larger dicks, my point was that the whole concept of bigger equals better and is more desirable is bullshit. It is no different than saying all men prefer women with small breasts. it simply isn't true. There are also male porn stars that are well endowed that discuss the problems of having a large cock, and female porn stars that talk about the difficulty of working with such men. many would prefer something around the normal size, to maybe a touch larger.

in fact I did a quick search to find my position is pretty much solidified in this https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/321220#size-and-appearance-of-the-vagina
 
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"Why do you think there are so many woman on this site who say they enjoy bigger cocks?" because the vast majority of women on this site are men pretending to be women.

you overlook one important thing, that this site is not the end all be all. there have been countless scientific studies conducted on penis length and what women find pleasurable and it does not coincide with the myth that women like big dicks. men are insecure about their dick size, but around 85% of women could really care less about it.

I also never said that there are not women that can't take larger dicks, my point was that the whole concept of bigger equals better and is more desirable is bullshit. It is no different than saying all men prefer women with small breasts. it simply isn't true. There are also male porn stars that are well endowed that discuss the problems of having a large cock, and female porn stars that talk about the difficulty of working with such men. many would prefer something around the normal size, to maybe a touch larger.

in fact I did a quick search to find my position is pretty much solidified in this https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/321220#size-and-appearance-of-the-vagina
I wasn't arguing that all women like big dicks and I didn't once say that! And I'm quite aware that most women say they are happy with average - I've also seen the reports and that may well be a true picture but also it might not. Though in many cases that might be all they've ever experienced so how can they compare? Also there is such a thing as reporting bias. If most women are married to guys with average cocks they are less likely to report that they are unhappy with their guys cock for a number of reasons for example loyalty affects reporting even in anonymous surveys as does an unwillingness to admit to being dissatisfied with something you have little power to change. These aren't issues just with surveys of cock size/satisfaction but issues with survey results in general. Surveys are subjective - they ask for opinion but they make no attempt to test that opinion in any truly quantitative way. It's basically like asking a group of people to predict the outcome of an experiment and then going with the consensus view and not bothering to do the experiment! Also, its interesting that all sex toy manufacturers produce larger as well as average toys and that there is clearly a big enough market.
But in any case none of that was anything to do with the points I was making. And I never said you can't have great sex with a guy with an average size cock - I've even said that in a number of posts I've made in this site (go check).

I was actually arguing, firstly, that it's nonsense that most women can't take a larger cock and the 'bottoming out' is actually due more to poor technique or rushed foreplay than female biology. Perhaps a lot more women might enjoy a longer penis if the guy attached to it was a bit more considerate. I'm very sure there are a lot of women who would indeed run from an 8" cock esp if they've experienced painful bottoming out with a shorter penis than that. What's their incentive to try a larger penis if sex with an only slightly bigger than average penis has been painful!
I'm sure that most people aren't even aware of the vaginal fornices. I wasn't and don't ever remember covering them in school biology when we did the reproductive system. But a better understanding of biology might explain why some women enjoy larger cocks while some have found even more average length cocks can cause them pain.

Secondly even if the 85% you mention is accurate that still leaves 15% which is still a highly significant number by any statistical margin who might well prefer something rather larger. So you might argue that a very significant percentage of women do enjoy big dicks lol. But again, you'd have to properly test that.
Yes guys are insecure about their dicks which is why in most studies guys over estimated their dick size. But saying therefore that cock size equals pleasure is a myth made by men is non-sensical. Most of the untruths we tell ourselves aim to reduce not exacerbate our sense of anxiety. So why would men produce a myth that in effect undermines the majority of the male population? They would be much more likely to produce a myth that said that cock size makes no difference to women and then produce surveys that show exactly that lol.

At the end of the day you just have to be really careful how you use statistics or construct surveys so this is deliberately a tongue in cheek response.
It really really doesn't matter - if you enjoy big cock go for it but unfortunately there aren't as many around as people seem to think. If you're happy with average that's ok too.
For the record I do love big cocks but there's also a visual element to arousal remember! But I've also had great sex with Mr Average and if I'd only ever waited for Mr Big I'd have had a lot less sex.
But I also get a bit annoyed when a guy argues that women don't really like big cocks. Yeah maybe lots don't but lots do and it feels a bit patronising to be told otherwise.
 
I wasn't arguing that all women like big dicks and I didn't once say that! And I'm quite aware that most women say they are happy with average - I've also seen the reports and that may well be a true picture but also it might not. Though in many cases that might be all they've ever experienced so how can they compare? Also there is such a thing as reporting bias. If most women are married to guys with average cocks they are less likely to report that they are unhappy with their guys cock for a number of reasons for example loyalty affects reporting even in anonymous surveys as does an unwillingness to admit to being dissatisfied with something you have little power to change. These aren't issues just with surveys of cock size/satisfaction but issues with survey results in general. Surveys are subjective - they ask for opinion but they make no attempt to test that opinion in any truly quantitative way. It's basically like asking a group of people to predict the outcome of an experiment and then going with the consensus view and not bothering to do the experiment! Also, its interesting that all sex toy manufacturers produce larger as well as average toys and that there is clearly a big enough market.
But in any case none of that was anything to do with the points I was making. And I never said you can't have great sex with a guy with an average size cock - I've even said that in a number of posts I've made in this site (go check).

I was actually arguing, firstly, that it's nonsense that most women can't take a larger cock and the 'bottoming out' is actually due more to poor technique or rushed foreplay than female biology. Perhaps a lot more women might enjoy a longer penis if the guy attached to it was a bit more considerate. I'm very sure there are a lot of women who would indeed run from an 8" cock esp if they've experienced painful bottoming out with a shorter penis than that. What's their incentive to try a larger penis if sex with an only slightly bigger than average penis has been painful!
I'm sure that most people aren't even aware of the vaginal fornices. I wasn't and don't ever remember covering them in school biology when we did the reproductive system. But a better understanding of biology might explain why some women enjoy larger cocks while some have found even more average length cocks can cause them pain.

Secondly even if the 85% you mention is accurate that still leaves 15% which is still a highly significant number by any statistical margin who might well prefer something rather larger. So you might argue that a very significant percentage of women do enjoy big dicks lol. But again, you'd have to properly test that.
Yes guys are insecure about their dicks which is why in most studies guys over estimated their dick size. But saying therefore that cock size equals pleasure is a myth made by men is non-sensical. Most of the untruths we tell ourselves aim to reduce not exacerbate our sense of anxiety. So why would men produce a myth that in effect undermines the majority of the male population? They would be much more likely to produce a myth that said that cock size makes no difference to women and then produce surveys that show exactly that lol.

At the end of the day you just have to be really careful how you use statistics or construct surveys so this is deliberately a tongue in cheek response.
It really really doesn't matter - if you enjoy big cock go for it but unfortunately there aren't as many around as people seem to think. If you're happy with average that's ok too.
For the record I do love big cocks but there's also a visual element to arousal remember! But I've also had great sex with Mr Average and if I'd only ever waited for Mr Big I'd have had a lot less sex.
But I also get a bit annoyed when a guy argues that women don't really like big cocks. Yeah maybe lots don't but lots do and it feels a bit patronising to be told otherwise.
on the opposite side of the spectrum it is insulting to be told women do like big cocks when evidence supports they don't. also the 15% also covers women with very small vaginal corridor that average would be too big.

I'm fine with people having their thing, what works for them as they say. I just think that within the cuck community the over importance of dick size is ridiculous.

I think we agree in a very unusual sort of way. just speaking my mind, and not trying to attack.
 
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