How did you find out and what was your response to finding out that your wife was cheating?

Can't say she was ever cheating since she had a hall pass from me since before we got married. However finding out she was actually using the hall pass was pretty exciting every time it happened. I had a good friend and room mate that had a green light from me to fuck her when ever he could get her to play along. Was always fun finding out after the fact that she had offered him some pussy when I had to leave to go to work. The first time she offered her pussy to a young security guy at her work that was flirting her up. He knew she married and got scared away when she straight up offered to let him fuck her. Next was when she told me her boss had been letting her watch him jerk off in his office and she would help by lifting her skirt and rubbing her cunt while he watched. He did not want to "cheat" on his wife by fucking her but loved to have her watch him jerk off. He did bend her over his desk on his last day there before he left for a new job. Told her he needed to know what it felt like to be in her so she bent over his desk, lifted her skirt and and let him pull her panties aside and slide in. She said it wasn't fucking because he did not cum in her....lol. She flirted with another co-worker for a few years and enjoyed his company on a work trip (no fucking that I know of). She found herself out with him and other co-workers after a work event and he walked her to her car. She said she wanted his cock and was so horny for him she took him bareback. I found out when she came home, told me she had been "naughty" and shoved her cunt in my face. Not sure how many times they fucked but my dick got hard every time she told me she was "working late". Those are a few. I'm sure their are details she has kept to herself. Despite my loving how much of a slut she is (love woman who love sex) I think sometimes she is embarrassed by her lust and likes to think of her self as a "good girl". To me she is the best.
 
I found out she had been cheating following a tip off from a workmate. I knew she had a boyfriend, or should I say, I believed she had a boyfriend who was a complete stranger to me. As it turned out she had been lying to me for a whole year, because, all this time she had been fucking two of my closest pals almost every Saturday night. One of my buddies, who was single, had his own apartment and that is where my wife went on her date night. My two pals indulged her in all manner of sex before she came home to me full of their cum.

I met up with my buddies every Sunday night totally unaware that both of them had been fucking my wife the night before. When I learned of this I confronted her and she admitted it. At my insistence, she went on to tell me the whole story with all the juicy details. I must confess to being angry at first, but when the lust kicked in it made me so horny that I actually enjoyed it.

As it happened she had already broke it off with them in order to avoid being found out, otherwise I think I would probably have encouraged her to carry on seeing them. That was years ago and neither of my pals are aware that I know of their secret.
 
I found out she had been cheating following a tip off from a workmate. I knew she had a boyfriend, or should I say, I believed she had a boyfriend who was a complete stranger to me. As it turned out she had been lying to me for a whole year, because, all this time she had been fucking two of my closest pals almost every Saturday night. One of my buddies, who was single, had his own apartment and that is where my wife went on her date night. My two pals indulged her in all manner of sex before she came home to me full of their cum.

I met up with my buddies every Sunday night totally unaware that both of them had been fucking my wife the night before. When I learned of this I confronted her and she admitted it. At my insistence, she went on to tell me the whole story with all the juicy details. I must confess to being angry at first, but when the lust kicked in it made me so horny that I actually enjoyed it.

As it happened she had already broke it off with them in order to avoid being found out, otherwise I think I would probably have encouraged her to carry on seeing them. That was years ago and neither of my pals are aware that I know of their secret.

You can encourage her to restart this with other friends of yours

Some years back, I decided to surprise her by getting dinner for her as she was "working late". I found her having dinner near her workplace with a buddy instead. She eventually admitted that they've been going out although she didn't admit to fucking him.

THis buddy once told other friends that he'd fuck her someday and always get any woman he wants. From that day on, he started avoiding me so they had probably been fucking for some time before I found out
 
You can encourage her to restart this with other friends of yours

Some years back, I decided to surprise her by getting dinner for her as she was "working late". I found her having dinner near her workplace with a buddy instead. She eventually admitted that they've been going out although she didn't admit to fucking him.

THis buddy once told other friends that he'd fuck her someday and always get any woman he wants. From that day on, he started avoiding me so they had probably been fucking for some time before I found out
To late for her to start again now, this happened many years ago but I wish I had at the time. How about you, were you angry or turned on? Did you encourage her to go on seeing him?
You can encourage her to restart this with other friends of yours

Some years back, I decided to surprise her by getting dinner for her as she was "working late". I found her having dinner near her workplace with a buddy instead. She eventually admitted that they've been going out although she didn't admit to fucking him.

THis buddy once told other friends that he'd fuck her someday and always get any woman he wants. From that day on, he started avoiding me so they had probably been fucking for some time before I found out
 
To late for her to start again now, this happened many years ago but I wish I had at the time. How about you, were you angry or turned on? Did you encourage her to go on seeing him?
No, I didn't. I was quite upset that she had been lying to me about working late and going out with him.

Although if I'm being honest, I was curious how many times he fucked her and what he thought of her skills in bed.
 
No, I didn't. I was quite upset that she had been lying to me about working late and going out with him.

Although if I'm being honest, I was curious how many times he fucked her and what he thought of her skills in bed.
The problem in my case I believe, is that my wife had so much freedom, and because she had fucked so many guys over the previous years that she probably felt she could just go out and fuck anyone she wanted without any repercussion. In effect she was out of control because it didn't stop at my two buddies, she went on to have an affair with her cousins husband and also the young guy from next door. She didn't attempt to keep it from me though and it I have to confess to enjoying it. There was another occasion when she had been on a night out with her friends in a nearby pub. She was was walking home at the end of the night when she bumped into another of my pals. As he was heading her way so he walked home with her, but here's the twist, I wasn't at home, I was at work on the nightshift. She told me about this the following day and naturally I asked the obvious, "please tell me you didn't fuck him" She hesitated before answering but she said no, of course not, he was too ...... to do anything". I asked myself, does that mean she would have fucked him if he wasn't ......" or there again, maybe she did fuck him and wasn't going to admit to it. To this day she still sticks to her original story so I have to accept it, however, whenever I'm with my buddy I still wonder if he has fucked my wife. For sure he will never tell me if he did.

In all honesty, I enjoyed her frisky, promiscuous behaviour so much, and because we had so much wonderful sex on the back of it, she could have fucked anyone she wanted and I wouldn't have lifted a finger to stop her.
 
The problem in my case I believe, is that my wife had so much freedom, and because she had fucked so many guys over the previous years that she probably felt she could just go out and fuck anyone she wanted without any repercussion. In effect she was out of control because it didn't stop at my two buddies, she went on to have an affair with her cousins husband and also the young guy from next door. She didn't attempt to keep it from me though and it I have to confess to enjoying it. There was another occasion when she had been on a night out with her friends in a nearby pub. She was was walking home at the end of the night when she bumped into another of my pals. As he was heading her way so he walked home with her, but here's the twist, I wasn't at home, I was at work on the nightshift. She told me about this the following day and naturally I asked the obvious, "please tell me you didn't fuck him" She hesitated before answering but she said no, of course not, he was too ...... to do anything". I asked myself, does that mean she would have fucked him if he wasn't ......" or there again, maybe she did fuck him and wasn't going to admit to it. To this day she still sticks to her original story so I have to accept it, however, whenever I'm with my buddy I still wonder if he has fucked my wife. For sure he will never tell me if he did.

In all honesty, I enjoyed her frisky, promiscuous behaviour so much, and because we had so much wonderful sex on the back of it, she could have fucked anyone she wanted and I wouldn't have lifted a finger to stop her.
At least she tells you about the men she's fucking, even if you don't get to watch. It must be quite heart-wrenching, wondering how they fucked her.

In my case, it's all based on conjecture and circumstantial evidence of her cheating, unfortunately. Unless I plant a bug on her, at the risk of her discovering and using it as a reason to end the marriage, when she's the one cheating.
 
At least she tells you about the men she's fucking, even if you don't get to watch. It must be quite heart-wrenching, wondering how they fucked her.

In my case, it's all based on conjecture and circumstantial evidence of her cheating, unfortunately. Unless I plant a bug on her, at the risk of her discovering and using it as a reason to end the marriage, when she's the one cheating.
Shadow her on one of those "business" trips- and get the evidence- or as my Colleagues ex-wife did, call both the husband and his female colleague at the same time early in the morning! Asian women will never admit to cheating till really confronted with hard evidence!
 
The problem in my case I believe, is that my wife had so much freedom, and because she had fucked so many guys over the previous years that she probably felt she could just go out and fuck anyone she wanted without any repercussion. In effect she was out of control because it didn't stop at my two buddies, she went on to have an affair with her cousins husband and also the young guy from next door. She didn't attempt to keep it from me though and it I have to confess to enjoying it. There was another occasion when she had been on a night out with her friends in a nearby pub. She was was walking home at the end of the night when she bumped into another of my pals. As he was heading her way so he walked home with her, but here's the twist, I wasn't at home, I was at work on the nightshift. She told me about this the following day and naturally I asked the obvious, "please tell me you didn't fuck him" She hesitated before answering but she said no, of course not, he was too ...... to do anything". I asked myself, does that mean she would have fucked him if he wasn't ......" or there again, maybe she did fuck him and wasn't going to admit to it. To this day she still sticks to her original story so I have to accept it, however, whenever I'm with my buddy I still wonder if he has fucked my wife. For sure he will never tell me if he did.

In all honesty, I enjoyed her frisky, promiscuous behaviour so much, and because we had so much wonderful sex on the back of it, she could have fucked anyone she wanted and I wouldn't have lifted a finger to stop her.
Same here, our sex life was wonderful and sometimes I would get sloppy seconds. Loved the benefits especially after she knew it turned me on.
 
Shadow her on one of those "business" trips- and get the evidence- or as my Colleagues ex-wife did, call both the husband and his female colleague at the same time early in the morning! Asian women will never admit to cheating till really confronted with hard evidence!
Is your wife Asian too?

I don't see how I can shadow her anywhere without her noticing, hence I'm looking for someone she doesn't know to shadow/test her.
 
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Shadow her on one of those "business" trips- and get the evidence- or as my Colleagues ex-wife did, call both the husband and his female colleague at the same time early in the morning! Asian women will never admit to cheating till really confronted with hard evidence!
Yeah Asian cuties you can catch with cum running down their thighs and they will deny that they fucked a huge black dick. But if you want to eat their messy cunny they will gush all over you. At least , well a friend told me. 😆
 
Yeah Asian cuties you can catch with cum running down their thighs and they will deny that they fucked a huge black dick. But if you want to eat their messy cunny they will gush all over you. At least , well a friend told me. 😆
Your friend knows Asian ladies well. Except that they love BWCs too.

Mine flirts with every white man she knows and probably has fucked a few.