The one time she actually "cheated on me", I was a victim of her deception.. In that instance I was not a cuckold, as I had no idea she had become involved and never gave her any encouragement or permission to have an affair with this 1st lover.
We were married 5 years and went away for a long weekend in PA with 2 other couples. One night while actively engaged in "the priovledge of marriage" my wife suddenly said that she had been fucking her (married) boss. That announcement cause me to immediately drop my load into her. After I recovered I asked her if what she said actually happened, she adamantly denied that she had ever had any sex with the guy.
I couldn't get that comment out of my head ad began reflecting back on the strange hours that she was putting into this supposedly P/T office job. I brought it up over a number of nights and she always insisted that what she said was only turn-on fantasy for my benefit. Digging deeper into her recent late and erratic office hours, the dinners at fine restaurants, night time boat rides, after hours cocktails, etc, was upon reflection highly suspicious. It started to ... me off that things just didn't logically line up, not because she may (likely) had sex with him, but the degree she was willing to go to try to gaslight me, in order to protect him. I came to the conclusion that this significantly older guy was becoming more important to her than me. Her having sex was not my issue, but lying and who was most important in her life was what was starting to really impact my mind. We were approaching the breaking point in our marriage, when one evening she broke down and confessed to their affair. It was more involved that I had imagined.
Over the next 3-4 nights we engaged in deep conversations and she was "completely" forthcoming in the details and explanations. She lied to me in the hopes that I would drop the subject and just forget her comment. Worried if I found out about their casual affair I would leave her. Couldn't believe how I remembered every detail of those long evenings, regarding supposedly, "having to stay late" and in his appreciation for her extra efforts by taking her to dinner before her leaving for home.
It was thru these discussions that we had in trying to rebuild the trust that had been broken that we ultimately agreed to allow her to stay working for this guy (well paid) and she could continue to enjoy his physical attention. She initially wanted to quit, because of the huge emotional problems/damage that their secret relationship caused for us and to our marriage. As a result of those long conversations that I willingly allowed her to enjoy the attention of other men that she was attracted to As a result I became a full fledged cuckold. For some reason it had always since I was a teenager it was a deep fantasy, but not anything I ever dared share with the gf, later my wife, until the above circumstances forced us into "talking".
We have been married longer that most other posters on this website, so what we agreed to became the basis of a successful sexual component of our marriage. There has never been the slightest trust problem between us since. Over the years my wife has repeatedly enjoyed guilt free sexual freedom that most other wives could never dream of.
We were married 5 years and went away for a long weekend in PA with 2 other couples. One night while actively engaged in "the priovledge of marriage" my wife suddenly said that she had been fucking her (married) boss. That announcement cause me to immediately drop my load into her. After I recovered I asked her if what she said actually happened, she adamantly denied that she had ever had any sex with the guy.
I couldn't get that comment out of my head ad began reflecting back on the strange hours that she was putting into this supposedly P/T office job. I brought it up over a number of nights and she always insisted that what she said was only turn-on fantasy for my benefit. Digging deeper into her recent late and erratic office hours, the dinners at fine restaurants, night time boat rides, after hours cocktails, etc, was upon reflection highly suspicious. It started to ... me off that things just didn't logically line up, not because she may (likely) had sex with him, but the degree she was willing to go to try to gaslight me, in order to protect him. I came to the conclusion that this significantly older guy was becoming more important to her than me. Her having sex was not my issue, but lying and who was most important in her life was what was starting to really impact my mind. We were approaching the breaking point in our marriage, when one evening she broke down and confessed to their affair. It was more involved that I had imagined.
Over the next 3-4 nights we engaged in deep conversations and she was "completely" forthcoming in the details and explanations. She lied to me in the hopes that I would drop the subject and just forget her comment. Worried if I found out about their casual affair I would leave her. Couldn't believe how I remembered every detail of those long evenings, regarding supposedly, "having to stay late" and in his appreciation for her extra efforts by taking her to dinner before her leaving for home.
It was thru these discussions that we had in trying to rebuild the trust that had been broken that we ultimately agreed to allow her to stay working for this guy (well paid) and she could continue to enjoy his physical attention. She initially wanted to quit, because of the huge emotional problems/damage that their secret relationship caused for us and to our marriage. As a result of those long conversations that I willingly allowed her to enjoy the attention of other men that she was attracted to As a result I became a full fledged cuckold. For some reason it had always since I was a teenager it was a deep fantasy, but not anything I ever dared share with the gf, later my wife, until the above circumstances forced us into "talking".
We have been married longer that most other posters on this website, so what we agreed to became the basis of a successful sexual component of our marriage. There has never been the slightest trust problem between us since. Over the years my wife has repeatedly enjoyed guilt free sexual freedom that most other wives could never dream of.
