Still new to this. When looking for a bull how do you know the guy isn't some cheating married guy? I don't want anything drama and don't want for us to be a homewrecker
How do know a bull isnt a cheating married guy?
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Interesting subject,
I’m trying to understand why couples that are openly indulging in sexual intimacy with people outside their marriage have an issue with others that are seeking to fulfill their desires without the other half of their relationship knowing.
Not all of these individuals are subject to drama or will become a recked home. Some have been married for long periods of time and just need to feel alive again.
They seek that fire that has been lost or have extremely high sex drives and want to experience the thrill that is missing at home. They don’t want to dramatize or lose what they have.
Hell some want to have the same for their marriage, but their spouse is too prudish or too set in their values or religion to indulge what the other one wants to try.
If all parties involved in the act are honest and upfront with what the are seeking, then I say don’t narrow your search and open your options to really enjoy and be enjoyed.
Life is short we should go with the flow and stop labeling people with societies labels.
You never know what you could be passing on. Communication and some understanding goes a long way. If it doesn’t feel right don’t do it, but don’t shut down great opportunities when presented.
Not intending to create an argument just pointing out that there is always two sides to a conversation that should be talked about.
I do hope you find what you seek and have the thrill of your life.
Best wishes.
I’m trying to understand why couples that are openly indulging in sexual intimacy with people outside their marriage have an issue with others that are seeking to fulfill their desires without the other half of their relationship knowing.
Not all of these individuals are subject to drama or will become a recked home. Some have been married for long periods of time and just need to feel alive again.
They seek that fire that has been lost or have extremely high sex drives and want to experience the thrill that is missing at home. They don’t want to dramatize or lose what they have.
Hell some want to have the same for their marriage, but their spouse is too prudish or too set in their values or religion to indulge what the other one wants to try.
If all parties involved in the act are honest and upfront with what the are seeking, then I say don’t narrow your search and open your options to really enjoy and be enjoyed.
Life is short we should go with the flow and stop labeling people with societies labels.
You never know what you could be passing on. Communication and some understanding goes a long way. If it doesn’t feel right don’t do it, but don’t shut down great opportunities when presented.
Not intending to create an argument just pointing out that there is always two sides to a conversation that should be talked about.
I do hope you find what you seek and have the thrill of your life.
Best wishes.
She got mad at me for getting this one pregnant.
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Our experience is a lot of 'bulls' are actually married men with unaware wives.
It has pro's and cons and it is totally up to you guys as a couple whether you want to hook up with them or not.
As tdog said a married bull does not automatically mean drama... Most of them are very discrete for obvious reasons.
For our long term regular bulls we don't want married bulls with unaware wives either. For one time hook ups or in clubs we're not gonna bother checking.
There is no 100% foolproof way to find out if a Bull is married or not. But there are a couple of 'flags' to pay attention to.
- a bull that can only meet up during daytime
- someone who suddenly drops out of communication chats or only texts during working hours or late at night
- simple but works : pay attention to the ringfinger... Even if they take off their wedding ring you will see the marks.
Tbh if you doubt : just bluntly ask them. When asked most people will be honest about it.
Check for wedding ring marks. Odd availability, sudden changes in availability after he gets texts.(Other reasons for this exist of course) He has a wedding ring. Mentions he is married . Ask him if he is married.
Or maybe you don't care if he is or not.
Or maybe you don't care if he is or not.
I am married, but separated from my wife and I care for the kids at home more than she does. I do my best to prioritize them when I am home, but I will sometimes continues chats with members when I am home in the evenings. Discretion is a must for me, just because I am thinking of others.
The few online couples I have met have been a great sexual outlet for me. So my point, there are grey lines too with regards to married guys playing here.
The few online couples I have met have been a great sexual outlet for me. So my point, there are grey lines too with regards to married guys playing here.
They'll usually say can travel but can't accommodate. Also They'll only be on at certain times and definitely wont reply early evenings.
First, That is his issue and not yours.
He is responsible for his relationship with his wife/girlfriend. You are responsible for your relationship with YOUR wife.
YOU are not creating drama or trouble. He is.
You also don’t know his situation. Just because he is stepping outside his marriage doesn’t mean he is cheating. She may know or even encourage him.
YOU just worry about the relationship between the three of you. That’s all that really matters.
Some hot wives love to know that they ARE married...they get off on knowing that fact.
I don’t hide that I am married. But I don’t advertise it either. My wife cannot play due to personal issues so she gives me the freedom to have fun.
That said, I don’t shove it in her face out of respect for her and our marriage.
She knows but doesn’t want details. If she asks, I tell her the truth.
But in the end, It’s nobody’s business but OURS
Big difference between someone hiding it and someone not advertising it. It is also why I said 'just ask it'
Nothing but respect to couples who are secure enough to open their relationship up in any way.
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