While I was married to my first wife, although she knew I was bi, she wanted no part in that, it was something she just didn’t want to deal with so there never any MM contact in front of her. I did see men on the side for sex and as long as she didn’t have to know about it, she could cope with that.
In the couple of years between losing her and meeting Lynn, I had a lot of gay sex. I wasn’t in a good place emotionally and certainly not looking for another relationship. Sex with other men was easy to find and helped fill the void.
Life with Lynn has been a breath of fresh air. Being able to be in a loving relationship and still be fully myself as a bi man has been a wonderful blessing. She wasn’t just open to my bisexuality but fully embraced it. She’s happy to play with straight or bi men so my involvement has been based around the sexuality or curiosity of the other men (there have been a few other women in recent years but it is mostly men). I’m very happy just to watch her getting fucked or to join in as much as the other party is comfortable with.
James