I'm an active cuck with my girlfriend and we have a steady bull. I'm also a widow with two daughters. How do other cucks make it work when there's family around? I'd also love to hear from any bulls who've worked around family members when they had a steady thing going.
How do you hide it from family?
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Windiancouple
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Our neighbors probably suspect but our friends and family don't know. Definitely keep it away from work, too.
My wife has broken ALL of the rules you all mention here!
1. Friends: though she is now 50, she hangs out with a few 26-30 yr old sluts. So all the group of girls know. Its their boyfriends and husbands that dont know! Im probably the only willing cuck, the others are innocent cucks so no chance to exchange experiences!
2. Family: My Sister in law is a slut and has had lovers while married. My 5 brother in laws fuck around like drunken sailors and have seen my wife leave in different cars when she is back in her hometown visiting. They all live on same street. A sort of terrace street so everyone knows everyone elses business. They have even see her leave in a car while Im inside talking to them! and then the next generation (now in their 20s-30s) know that Auntie is a hotwife slut. She herself taught them to be sluts before they settled down, got married and had kids. Told them its your only chance in life and your husbands will still be unfaithful! A few have followed her advise and also get around here and there.
Our grown kids have known since they are teens. Mommy leads an intense social life while I stayed at home to baby sit. She even brought the party home many times. Young college guys so you could trust them. (Where have all my DVDs gone!?) So when kids younger and asleep, there was quite a bit of sex going on in the darkened living room. Meaning my wife and her slutty friends of back then. Funny how birds of a feather tend to flock together... As kids grew and got busy with their own girls, they hardly cared. When I was out of town, (a lot) wife would bring home cool guys who would bribe the kids with pizza, beer and sports tickets. they knew Mommy and Daddy love each other so they never saw the other guys as a threat. Some even helped kids with school projects and homeworks! So wife would say to me: "honey I have to pay him back somehow!" Sex at that age was out of the house of course.
3. Work: she has broken her own rule and fucked the occasional client. So be it. She runs her own business so no boss to fire her. She flirts with some of my co-workers and boss. She does it for me! Wears sexy/ slutty dresses when they are in town for a dinner. I work from home. She encourages me to post a sexy pic of her on the Whatsapp status and then checks if anyone of them have seen her. We now have one avid follower. I took it further and posted a few in bikinis and dresses with nipple slips. she has posted them on her own social media so no crime. I selected only one viewer (filter out family) and the avid follower has been checking my status every day! She sexts with two other guys from my previous jobs. One even sends her money occassionally. he treats her like a personal Only fans.
1. Friends: though she is now 50, she hangs out with a few 26-30 yr old sluts. So all the group of girls know. Its their boyfriends and husbands that dont know! Im probably the only willing cuck, the others are innocent cucks so no chance to exchange experiences!
2. Family: My Sister in law is a slut and has had lovers while married. My 5 brother in laws fuck around like drunken sailors and have seen my wife leave in different cars when she is back in her hometown visiting. They all live on same street. A sort of terrace street so everyone knows everyone elses business. They have even see her leave in a car while Im inside talking to them! and then the next generation (now in their 20s-30s) know that Auntie is a hotwife slut. She herself taught them to be sluts before they settled down, got married and had kids. Told them its your only chance in life and your husbands will still be unfaithful! A few have followed her advise and also get around here and there.
Our grown kids have known since they are teens. Mommy leads an intense social life while I stayed at home to baby sit. She even brought the party home many times. Young college guys so you could trust them. (Where have all my DVDs gone!?) So when kids younger and asleep, there was quite a bit of sex going on in the darkened living room. Meaning my wife and her slutty friends of back then. Funny how birds of a feather tend to flock together... As kids grew and got busy with their own girls, they hardly cared. When I was out of town, (a lot) wife would bring home cool guys who would bribe the kids with pizza, beer and sports tickets. they knew Mommy and Daddy love each other so they never saw the other guys as a threat. Some even helped kids with school projects and homeworks! So wife would say to me: "honey I have to pay him back somehow!" Sex at that age was out of the house of course.
3. Work: she has broken her own rule and fucked the occasional client. So be it. She runs her own business so no boss to fire her. She flirts with some of my co-workers and boss. She does it for me! Wears sexy/ slutty dresses when they are in town for a dinner. I work from home. She encourages me to post a sexy pic of her on the Whatsapp status and then checks if anyone of them have seen her. We now have one avid follower. I took it further and posted a few in bikinis and dresses with nipple slips. she has posted them on her own social media so no crime. I selected only one viewer (filter out family) and the avid follower has been checking my status every day! She sexts with two other guys from my previous jobs. One even sends her money occassionally. he treats her like a personal Only fans.
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Yes, much better when they know. We hid it for awhile but now no need for pretense.
No one goes around saying: yes we are having sex!. Just low tone and guys come and go like any other friends. No PDAs either around family. Though wife loves to rattle her macho-latino brothers by holding hands with guys when she is down visiting and I have not accompanied her. For a man in Colombia, its only them that are allowed to have other women. the wife MUST stay home and tend to the family. it irks them that their little sister (now 50) does the same but in reverse.
Bravo to sis for demonstrating that aspect of her life!
What's funny is that I was in a previous dead end marriage and never suspected this went on in real life. Then I met my present wife and it was in front of me all along! There are even a few moms at school which my wife discovered, play around. She never mixed her affairs with them, but it was known. It takes one to recognize one!
Its funny how it shakes their macho world. Plus she dresses all slutty. Just go on chicme.com and look at the sluttiest, see thru outfits. this is what she wears when on a date and staying at her family! They believe that fooling around is reserved exclusively for the men. To add insult to injury, she will be picked up in a large 4x4 or truck. Her brothers run around in used and battered up sedans.... So in short, that rule never even existed for us! Thank God for the barrio.
I believe that. Us moms have a sixth sense about some things lol
My wife even overheard a couple of dads discussing another mom's tits and ass at a sports game one evening! Then again, Im sure remarks have been made about my wife's body.
People is largely influenced by ther biases.
So, if they see a discreet, somewhat quiet and ordinary couple like we (wife and husband) tend to be most of the time, then they don't confabulate about the possibility of we doing swinging, sharing or hotwife lifestyle.
We avoid to approach any sexual issues or innuendos within or family and friends. What's the point to satisfy our desires teaming up really close people? Nope.
In fact, even an extravagant and well displayed couple could pass by unnoticed, if manage to avoid those matters within known people. With children that might be harder, agreed.
So, if they see a discreet, somewhat quiet and ordinary couple like we (wife and husband) tend to be most of the time, then they don't confabulate about the possibility of we doing swinging, sharing or hotwife lifestyle.
We avoid to approach any sexual issues or innuendos within or family and friends. What's the point to satisfy our desires teaming up really close people? Nope.
In fact, even an extravagant and well displayed couple could pass by unnoticed, if manage to avoid those matters within known people. With children that might be harder, agreed.
Agree 100% We have some good fun with our friend. I can't imagine trying to explain how we enjoy getting naked with another guy, taking turns doing her, kissing her, more sex, taking another turn, describing how turned on she gets and we do it together in our bed. If you understand then you understand. Some of our friends might be into it also but we don't want to know and don't want them to find out about us.
We have some very good looking friends we have great fun with but crossing that line with sex could go really bad.
There's plenty of sexy comments and jokes when people are drin.king but we just laugh and that's it.
We keep our fun very private.
JoeRee
Couple
We keep it out of our personal life. Rarely do we do it at our home and most of our experiences are out of town.
why hiding it?Hiding means mostly you did something wrong,and that,s totally not the case!it,s 2025!and it,s going backwards,so concervar-tive!in the 60,s a miniskirt was something to show women can wear what they want,liberating women&in 2025 a miniskirt is for sluts&whores ,if family doesn,t agree with your choice well that,s their problem!
Because you have relationships with these people on another level. You also respect their own ability to handle information they may not agree with. Like politics. These days, you know that you will end up in disagreement, so we are not hiding it. We simply choose not to turn it into an ideological confrontation.
We share knowledge of our lifestyle with some of my wife's friends. Mainly singles, divorcees and females who generally also have an open mind, aka sluts.
But we dont share with other school parents we are frriends with. Though we did come a cross a few dads on Adult SM who shared same zip code! But everyone knows to keep the secret
Ill add that wife has made her early, and more recent whorish lifestyle, public within her family. The reason is that she paid for her first 3 children's college.
Turns out our hateful daugh-t r inla -w did not go to college and doesnt work. But she complains that the world owes her and her small kids. So wife one day turned and said to her and rest of group at table: "A real woman sells her ass if she has to feed her kids and doesnt go around complaining". She added that she did so in her young 20s after her 1st husband abandonded her and she is not embarrassed. In fact she felt proud that men put a dollar value on her ass.
She has not openly said that guys still send her money these days for her ... copy; or that she continues to fuck other men. But its pretty obvious to the immediate family. Her own sister was a big whore and so was her mom back in her days. Apple never falls far from the tree and for that, I am grateful.
Turns out our hateful daugh-t r inla -w did not go to college and doesnt work. But she complains that the world owes her and her small kids. So wife one day turned and said to her and rest of group at table: "A real woman sells her ass if she has to feed her kids and doesnt go around complaining". She added that she did so in her young 20s after her 1st husband abandonded her and she is not embarrassed. In fact she felt proud that men put a dollar value on her ass.
She has not openly said that guys still send her money these days for her ... copy; or that she continues to fuck other men. But its pretty obvious to the immediate family. Her own sister was a big whore and so was her mom back in her days. Apple never falls far from the tree and for that, I am grateful.
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