I find myself in agreement with a significant portion of the user base regarding the prevalence of inauthentic profiles and content. I believe that approximately 90% of the activity on this site are not real. That's not to say the poster is fake. Just mean what they put out or portrays is fake.
Many photographs appear to be in the 80's or sourced from adult websites. Some threads just sounds unrealistic, and I'm not saying letting the boss fuck the wife to get a promotion doesn't happen or allow all my personal close friends gangbang the wife doesn't happen, while undoubtedly entertaining—and, as some users have noted, occasionally humorous in their exaggeration—these stories does give me a good laugh.
I suspect a deeper psychological motivation underpins much of this fictional activity. A significant number of male members may be utilizing the platform as a safe, anonymous space to explore and articulate their cuckolding or hotwifing fantasies without real-world consequences. This could stem from two primary scenarios:
1. ....../Unaware Partners: These men may have wives who are either uninterested in or completely unaware of their husbands' fantasies. The site provides an outlet for these desires without risking marital discord by introducing a topic the wife may find objectionable.
2. Fear of Reality: For others, the fantasy is compelling, but the potential emotional complexities of actualization are daunting. The "Pandora's Box" analogy is particularly apt here; once a wife engages with another man, the relationship dynamics irrevocably change. Men may fear jealousy, loss of control, or emotional distance, thus preferring the safety of a fictional narrative where they retain complete control over the outcome.
3. Validation: This act is rarely about a genuine desire to share their partner. Instead, it is a quest for external validation. By posting their wives images, these men are not sharing their wife; they are using her as a proxy to gain the attention and affirmation they feel they lack. The positive comments, private messages, and expressions of desire from other men on the site serve as a powerful ego boost. It validates their choice of partner ("See how desirable my wife is?") and, by extension, validates themselves.
I would like to see a simple yet effective modification to the platform's posting protocol to be more transparent. When initiating a new thread, users should be required to categorize their post with a clear and unambiguous label:
* FACT: For genuine accounts, experiences, or inquiries.
* FICTION: For fictional stories, role-playing scenarios, or fantasy sharing.
This distinction would serve several purposes. It would allow members seeking authentic connections to filter out fictional content more effectively. Simultaneously, it would legitimize the space for those who wish to share fantasies without misleading others, creating a more honest and less contentious environment.
Just my 2 cents.
