The interesting thing with my wife is that she has two counters, one for when she was a professional, she kept track of how many had her when she was in the red light district and how many had her when she did outcall and the couple of porn spreads she did
Her other count was men she was in romantic relationships with. That count is smaller than most other married ladies of her age, according to her she has only been in 4 relationships with men that were romantic, that is sex for romance.
her professional count is in the thousands