And, I was 28 when I had my first BBC.  Had fantasies when I was young, Jr and High School) but was afraid to act on them.  2nd Hubby convinced me to act on my fantasies, went on a 3 year bender where I was BBC exclusive and almost ruined my marriage.  Lover every second of it, would like to get involved again but keep it better under control this time.  J (the wife)