My wife had to see that it would not endanger our relationship. She had a hard time believing I wouldn't be jealous and angry. Every person is different but for us it was all about trust. Once we tried it and she saw that I didn't get upset, never criticized her and was genuinely happy to watch her fuck another guy she really opened up and had a great time. I help her pick out a sexy outfit, give her advice on what turns men on, shave her pussy and otherwise get her ready for a play date. It is truly something we do together even though I just watch and photograph. I really enjoy watching her have a good time in all things including sex.