Hi this is abhi. 36 male from india. I am married to beautiful woman of age 45. She is amazing in bed. We do role plays and all kinky stuff including golden shower. I wanna convince her for wearing more revealing attires in public. And want her to go for a full body massage from a male. How shall I go abt it?
How to convince wife for a hotwife lifestyle?
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mirella.hango
Female
Talk to her openly about this lifestyle
You have to. Even if she does not do it straight away make sure you tell her she can do anything at any time with anyone else. She may get an opportunity.
Introduce her to it by way of stories or video and let her know how much it turns you on, and how much more exciting it would be if it was with her instead of the those in the stories or videos.
We do role play of her getting fucked by her colleagues. N I always say that I wanna see you getting a full body massage by a hunk n then want him to fuck u. She feels this is just my bedtime fantasy.
Next time you’re into role playing or having sex, bring it up again and tell her how hot it makes you, but then even though she might think it’s just a fantasy that you really enjoy, ask her if that all the circumstances were just right, would she consider doing it, and not only to help fulfill your fantasy, but that because she will also most certainly enjoy it too. And then see what her response is to that,
We have talked a lot abt celebs fuckin her. Her favourite celeb she would love to get fucked by is Denzel Washington. She says he must b having amazing thick n muscular cock.
Only way she will find out is if you talk to her. You can't trick her into it and even if you could it would be a crappy way to treat her.
Talk to her. Listen to her. Get her to talk about her fantasies without pushing yours, that will get her comfortable discussing fantasies.
Only way this lifestyle works is with great communication between husband and wife.
Demented_Donny
Male
when you try tricking someone into doing something like this, you are opening the door for her to hide things from you if she does do it. it can also make people feel guilty or resentment. this isn't about manipulation it is about you two exploring sex and your relationship together. if she isn't interested, she simply isn't. It doesn't mean ever, it just means right now. she needs to feel comfortable with the idea then she will be more likely to do things. just keep in mind, once it happens there is no going back. you can be opening a can of worms you couldn't have predicted. focus more on her wants and concerns more than your fantasy. not doing so will more than likely having this backfire on you.
Yeah . I am in touch with a black guy who is student and staying in same city.
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