How to get my wife to be open to Bi/play with women

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I want to know from women married /single is there a way to get my wife to be interested in being intimate with another women. My is wife is conservative but he open to new things cuckhold watching xxx. Any suggestions in ways get her more open to be intimate with another woman. Watching xxx ? I want to eventually set my wife with an older attractive woman. My wife is very beautiful..one fantasy be amazing come true is to see my wife handled by an older woman. I’ve sent her pictures and she doesn’t like seeing it however she sometimes likes lesbo pictures. Trying to ease in subtle…just any women who weren’t bi…but now open have some thoughts
 
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I'm interested too. My wife has sent me porn clips of FFM in response when I've sent her MFM clips I've let her know how hot I think that is,but when asked if she like that she says yes, but when asked if she would like to try that, hesitantly say "no". Would also be interested in how to guide her to her bi side even if I just watch her experience and enjoy it!
 
I'm interested too. My wife has sent me porn clips of FFM in response when I've sent her MFM clips I've let her know how hot I think that is,but when asked if she like that she says yes, but when asked if she would like to try that, hesitantly say "no". Would also be interested in how to guide her to her bi side even if I just watch her experience and enjoy it!
Yeah I think that’s a good start…I send her GIFS FF or FFM. Trying to get her psychologically be turned on by it
 
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she agreed to try…but just like toys was first not into…she loves it…and dildos as well…maybe not or maybe so in terms of coming around. She does admire other women’s beauty so idk..fingers crossed
 
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Africanwife4old:

Maybe I’m wrong, but it seems to me that the obvious is being overlooked. In your place, I’d share this interest with several lesbians and/or bisexual women.

My guess is that as a woman, your wife will want SOME kind of attachment / relationship before getting involved with another woman anyway. It may be that several women working in concert with you would tap those with the most experience and best ideas in that regard.

Since your wife is extremely attractive, it may be easier than you think to find women who are eager to help!

I especially like the team approach because your wife will relate to different personalities differently. One may be her confidant, while another may be more her type sensually. Then you gather information about her responses to the girlfriends newly introduced into her life.

In this way, you try to establish a self-correcting process in which you work with multiple women toward a common goal.

This means YOU may not NEED to figure out how to make this happen.

This job can be given to the women who will seduce your wife.

Just my thoughts.,.

All the best!
 
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Yeah has sorta agreed to doing one time and when I send pictures of beautiful woman she will admire their beauty…I think that as well…hoping yo get her to a Lez bar…couple shots lol and see how it goes lol
 
Could you do some social media/internet work to learn about the local lesbian community? If you find an approachable leader in that community and have HER do the groundwork as to what woman/women might be good for and interested in acting as a team in such a project — that might make a world of difference.

Hitting a gay/lesbian bar seems rather ‘hit-and-miss. You MIGHT find a talented seductress, or you might find an obnoxious drunk lesbian woman. In your situation, I’d much rather go into a situation where a couple of women actually knew WHY they were there, and were getting feedback before and after.

After each encounter, you would get to channel your wife’s feedback on that meet-up. The ladies then plan and calibrate the next contact accordingly. That might entail a gay/lesbian bar. Or it might mean a night at the orchestra. Or a meal at a foreign restaurant. Who knows! In time, they might get your wife to a volunteer strip show.

The more lesbian women who become good friends with your wife, the greater the likelihood that you will see them using their winsome, womanly whiles to ply away and melt her resistance until there is nothing she wants more than for them to send her riding massive, magical cervix orgasms that go off in the center of her being, rising up like rockets from her hair follicles to her toe tips, and that continue for hours or even days…

All the best!
 
The "lesbian community" will do nothing for her to convince her to have sex with other women. It will gross her out and scare her off most likely. For a woman who might find other women sexy and attractive, she needs to be very carefully seduced. Girls laughing, talking sexy, touching a bit and perhaps eventually managing a kiss. I think kissing the the single biggest factor in being attracted to another woman. Women love kissing and it's erotic. The grossest thing to me is some chick at a lifestyle event who just tries to finger me or become overly sexual without getting to know me. Keep in mind I'm bi and I LOVE sex with other girls.

Women need to appreciate other women in a romantic sense. Rote sexual contact with another woman is not very satisfying to me at all. It's just going through the motions. No matter how attracted I was to girls in the beginning, I had no desire to just jump in and start going down on another girl. It took lots of time and the encouragement of Steph to get me comfortable and not self-conscious about all of this. Kissing Steph the first time was probably the most nerve wracking thing I ever did sexually.

I was always "wired" a bit different and I had an attraction to women and girls at a very early age. I was fortunate enough to find a few older girls and girls my age to slowly experiment with and eventually enjoy sex. I was VERY careful about showing any attraction to girls or even any other people from school knowing about my attraction. I did not pursue girls from my school at all. I was very fortunate as a younger girl because I had my friend Cher who I experienced years of sleeping with and I had my tennis instructor Steph She really taught me fantastic lessons about sex between girls and sex in general. She taught me how to successfully pursue sex, enjoy sex, manipulate guys, pleasure girls (in some ways) and to be able to relax being naked and sexually active in the company of other people (all older than me). It took time and it was a fascinating journey. I never regretted a minute of those days and I'm thankful I had those experiences.

The most important factor in sex with other girls has always been romantic attraction, physical attraction and COMFORT with the situation above all else. Some very TASTEFUL girl, girl porn or threesome FMF can be extremely beneficial in getting your reluctant wife over the hump. I can guarantee that it will take time though. Of course this is all in my humble opinion and you must factor in how I started out in my sex life and how I've behaved sexually over all of these years. I hope this helps.

Mrs Hw
 
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She agreed to try it …but it’s more exciting thinking she be turned on by it…& she does express how kissing turns her on. She does find attractive traits in women… Hoping maybe at an “event”…some dancing etc and hoping finding someone aggressive can get it lol
 
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She agreed to try it …but it’s more exciting thinking she be turned on by it…& she does express how kissing turns her on. She does find attractive traits in women… Hoping maybe at an “event”…some dancing etc and hoping finding someone aggressive can get it lol
Dancing is always great if she enjoys that!
 
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