How to get my wife to try other men?

Kinda glad this question was asked....I asked the same thing 20+ years ago...and it was explained to me like this. To do anything you need a means, motive, and the opportunity. Just like an episode of Law and Order. What everyone has said before is true! You have to be honest about your feelings and what you want...that is the means....That is how she knows she is safe to proceed and not throwing away a relationship. The next is motive. You have to find some one who pushes her lust buttons (that is Amazon's saying even though I wish I could claim it). She won't give in to desire, if there isn't anyone that she desires. And, for the first time, it needs to be someone that really gets her motor running. And once again, this is where honesty comes in....don't force it. Let her decide. Lastly is opportunity....You have to set up her and the stunt cock in a place where both are comfortable enough to act naturally. It may be with you there, it may not. It may require alcohol...actually it will probably require alcohol.....Anyway, you have to talk to her and find a good safe place.....Now, the last part. LET IT HAPPEN! Don't try to force it. If it only goes to kissing or petting, that's ok. There is always next time. If it goes all the way....let it...don't try and stop it unless she wants you to. There, that is my 2 cents. Use what you need, discard the rest.
What if she will tell you anything but her desires? How can you get that out of her.